Do Muscles get you Girls?
Aha, one of the big sociological questions that I can answer not just with speculation and untested logic, but with real life experience as I am a 27 year old guy who has been building muscles since he was 14 years old. You're welcome 🌚🤗.
Here is a current picture of me:
And here is a picture of me at 17:
So, we all know there's the belief that women love muscular guys and that getting muscular would get you girls, but at the same time we also hear the rebuttals, that it isn't true that girls love muscular guys, that muscles don't get you girls. Recently girls saying they love Dad bods trended and is still trending.
So, from my Experience, What has Proven to be the Case?
As a little young dude growing up, going to school and all I got to mingle with girls and I've got a face most would consider cute, I've always had that face. And I've always had girls take a liking to me, fall in love with me and all that, all through my childhood and teenage.
What I've found out is girls have always liked me before I started working out and after I started working out but girls made more advances to me and made the first move more when I wasn't a muscular guy.
But after becoming a muscular guy even though the advances and first move stuff reduced the regard girls held me in was way higher. When I find out what they talk about me amongst themselves and all it seems they place me on some very high pedestal and kinda worship me.
Before being muscular when I find out what they say about me it usually shows they like me and all but the reverence and pedestalizing wasn't as much as it got after the muscles came.
What do I think happened? I think I became less easy to approach because of all the muscles. I think I started seeming more above their reach because I was now higher quality. This is the only explanation that makes sense to me because nothing else makes sense, admiration increased but advances reduced, so...
Something else happened after the muscles. The thing is, not every girl likes muscles and every guy can do just fine with girls if they don't have muscles but have other things like social skills, money, status, cute faces, etc. But when you meet the girls that love muscles it'd be an instant hit!
The girls who love muscles become your crowd and when they meet you and get to do intimate things you get something from them that at least 90% of men never get in their lives and that is your body gets worshipped.
You'd have them touching you body and telling you how crazy it drives them. Sometimes you're just passing by shirtless inside the house and she screams OMG and tells you that the view just got her in crazy awe. You'd have them grabbing on parts of your body and never wanting to let go, keeping their heads on your chest, grabbing, cuddling, everything!
This is some really great feeling most men would never get to experience in their lives. What other stuff can a man have that would get him this? Things like money, intellect, a cute face, etc can get you praises from your women but in the case of money you might feel it's insincere and feel like you purchased the praises.
Praise for intellect feels great too but not in the way praise for your body would feel. Praise for a cute face comes quite close, though. Definitely nothing beats your lover fawning over your body.
Note that I'm not saying you would get this every time, so many women don't care muscles, there are even some women who specifically don't want guys with muscles. I'm just saying there would be many occasions where you would meet the ones that care about it and this is what you'll get.
Furthermore, here is from a podcast where this sociological expert guy talks about how it is enough to be attractive to only 1% of women, like having a niche.
In conclusion, there is a big market for muscles out there, but remember many women might hold you in such a high regard they think they have no chance with you and even though they like you a lot would be quite too intimidated to do anything about it. But this can be takes care of if you don't mind making the first move all the time.
Remember too that there is still a big section of women that don't care about muscles, you need to remember these because many guys think once they have muscles women would start throwing themselves at them.
But lastly remember the feeling is outta this world when you meet the women who are crazy about muscles and who show it.
The End
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I think if you have money and a nice car, girls will automatically go to you. I've seen a lot of things happen like this in my life.
I think you'll find this to be a good read brother: https://x.com/alpharivelino/status/1712461956618301646
Yeah, I found it to be a good read, but I thought it was going to touch more on the topic of this post I made about muscles and girls.
Now for that, David DeAngelo would be the man to learn from. "Attraction isn't a choice" comes to mind.
I'll find something relevant and get back to you.
This is more or less what David DeAngelo says: https://x.com/TheManMakerx/status/1961866416526914036
Always learn something new from reading your posts. I didn't quite completely understood how it works with having muscles versus not having it with women. Makes sense that it increases the amount of "quality" a man has in the eyes of women, but in and of itself is not a surefire way to get women to like you by default. The aim is probably to be a well rounded individual with many qualities :)
Yeah, that's right 🤝
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