RE: It's all on me
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I understood your point. But what if the person is going the wrong way? It is our duty as family or friends to correct our self you know. That is why there is a saying that said be your brother's keeper. If there is need for someone to change then, we will or should ask them to change for the betterment of us all. Thanks for sharing.
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well, in that particular way, for the best interest of our friend or family member, we should help them in the changing process. But if they don't want to change, there is particular no way that we can "force them" to do it... Trust me. Unfortunately I now by personal experience that is what happens. Only one can change for him/herself. No matter what we might think that is the opposite. It's rough...
You're right though. Like me now we have a sister who is an introvert, she doesn't talk to anyone even us her siblings, we don't know her pains and happy moments. For close to ten years now, we are still struggling to know what exactly is wrong with her. And the last time we went to see her, I personally told my siblings that, she is the only person that can change herself, we can only try our best. But she have the final say to her life. So I clearly understand what you are talking about.
I totally understand your thoughts and pains about the situation with your sibling. When we try so much to achieve something, and to reach out for the other person, but the other person doesn't allow us to be reached...
Thanks for understanding.