The Female Practice of Keeping a Guy Just for Show off

This is a strange and funny practice that I have come to find out especially because I've been a good looking guy all my life 🌚🌚.

This is the practice of making it look to the public like they are involved with you meanwhile they are not involved with you. The major interesting thing here is that they'll put a lot of effort into making people think you guys are together but refuse put in the effort to have sex or get intimate so you guys can actually be together.

It's happened to me several times. If you're a guy who's not just good looking but have a reputation around for being that cool guy, girls would want to have you. But some of them would be more interested in the validation having you would give them, they'll be more interested in the fact that their own reputation and public image would go up when other people think they're with you.

But at the same time when you're behind closed doors with them they don't want to make it easy for you to get intimate with them. They were in a hurry to walk around with you and be seen with you, they were in a hurry to do a little public display of affection so that their girls and other people would think they have bagged a good looking guy like you, but they want to take things slow behind closed doors.

They don't want that hurry in that aspect, they still want you push for intimacy and pressure them just like you would have probably done if they didn't like you this much.

This has happened to me a lot of times. One time I was the hot cake in some neighbourhood and this girl used to always want to hangout with me, go to restaurants and other places.

In public she always acted like we were an item, but in private she was taking things very slowly.

I even found out later that she had told people we were dating when we were not dating. One person even told me that she said I've been begging to date her but she was thinking it over. LMAO 🤣.

As recently as last month I even met one girl who I got very friendly with and one day she introduced me to her female boss as her boyfriend. She was maintaining a little chuckle while she said it and it sounded like a joke, but it was clear only me who knows we aren't dating would take it like a joke, the boss would never in a million years think it is a joke.

So I realized she simply wanted the admiration that would come with being associated with a stunning mf like me, and I let her have it, because I thought she wanted me that badly. But after this incident she's had countless opportunities to hang with me indoors but she keeps telling me it's going to happen later.

Why didn't getting your validation/admiration for being associated with a demigod looking mf wait till later too? If you wanted to take things slow then why not in the association aspect?

Girls sometimes just want to claim the territory, ward off other girls and then try to starve you and make you push for more as if they don't want you that much. My solution is always to disappear.

Once I realize a girl is in a hurry to get that admiration from other people but slow to impress me personally I just disappear. I wouldn't be there showing u trying to push for anything, I'm off and with time I'll try to make it clear to everybody there was nothing between us.

So there you have it. I think men show women off too without being in a hurry to impress these women personally or do what the women want. Gotta wait for a woman to write about her own experiences, for now I'm out 😅.

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