A Woman's Patriarchal Gender Role is the Most Worthless Role Ever, if a Man Performs His to the Utmost...
According to patriarchy, a woman's gender role is housekeeping, cooking, and taking care of the children; while a man's gender role is protection and providing.
Now imagine if a man get so rich that he can have pay for a washing machine, a dishwasher, maids, chefs, security detail. This is a man performing his gender role to the utmost, now when this happens you see how worthless a woman's gender has become?
She no longer has anything to perform apart from just laying about.
And sex isn't a gender role because it goes both ways, she can't provide sex to her man without her man providing sex to her, so they cancel each other out 😅.
What role, then, does a woman perform? That of a friend and close confidant? It's the same with sex, they cancel each other out, because she can't be his friend without him being her friend, that's how it works, both of them would be friends and confidants, and partners and what have you.
If you say feminine energy, that is good, but the man's masculine energy cancels that out too. So at the end of the day a woman's gender role...
Birthing of children is a very huge thing, but it is a natural role and not a patriarchal invention. And we're talking about patriarchy here.
Then again, a lot of men these days are not even interested in having children. So there's that. And if they wanted to, taking care of children is still something a man can outsource. Ever heard of nannies? 😅
Furthermore, if a woman has a lot of money, and can afford security detail, then a man's gender role of providing and protecting also becomes worthless. Except the woman is so greedy she still wants his money even though she has hers. LOL. And this is the case too many of the times.
But if she's just not greedy, that's how a man's role would become worthless.
At the end of the day, it seems patriarchal gender roles were only made to thrive with poverty and lack. Once both parties have a lot of money those roles can go out the window.
This tells you that relationships between men and women is really not about roles but about a human connection and the love for being around each other. If anyone really cares about the other performing their roles then they're clearly operating from a place of poverty and lack.
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Probably companionship and taking care of children they both birthed in a motherly way🤔
Anyway, the women know better so I will wait to see their contributions here.
Heheheh😅
That's not true.
Look at history, at the noble/royal families:
The woman manages the house. She organizes things, decides on decorations, things like that.
Furthermore, a high class gentleman can not marry just any wife; He needs a woman with class.
Her job is to represent, to look and act presentable.
A high value lady is schooled in ettiquette and such things and she must be disciplined to always keep up appearances, which can be a tough job.
I honestly think the traditional patriarchic structure is the natural order of things.
I mean, a woman can do a lot of things that a man can do and the other way around, but generally, women are better at certain things than men, and vice versa.
No. First of all, those roles were not made.
They developed.
They developed all over the world, independently from each other.
There are a few exceptions, but the majority of societes were and are patriarchical.
So much so, that I think it's ok to see this as the natural state of things.
There are exceptions to every rule and though I believe that all other models than the patriarchical model are nonsense, I understand for some people these roles don't work.
Not every relationship is the same. In some relatiuonships, some of the roles are different than the norm, and that's ok, too. But this is a small fraction only.
If you hire a professional interior decorator, he'll do a way better job than any untrained woman can dream of 😂.
You're right about a high class gentleman not marrying just any woman and about it taking discipline and being a tough job to keep up appearance but these fall under the roles that gets canceled out like I said in the post because the man also performs the exact same thing for the woman. He has to keep up appearance and has to not be just any man but a man of quality enough for her to marry. Stuff like that.
I also agree the patriarchal structure was developed based on the natural strengths and weaknesses of the genders and so, yes, it is natural too.
You're right they were not made but developed. I totally agree. But after they developed a lot of artificial enforcement has been responsible for keeping the status quo.
Very good point. The post, however, was not an argument against patriarchy but just showing how useless the patriarchal gender roles can be when the both parties are rich as hell. Do you think the post didn't succeed in doing this?
So, a high class woman could hire the interior designer.
But she knows what her man likes, she knows he doesn't want to spend time talking to the designer...
On paper maybe...
In real life, real relationships, money isn't the main attraction.
That's why the rich lady cheats with the gardener.