RE: Toxic ties : #241
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This is truly sad and enough to make you go crazy.
There's one true fact about good women. Experiences have shown that good women often attract bad toxic men. And vice versa. Opposite really attracts.
I am so sorry you had to go through all this stressful experience alone. Is definitely enough to break you.
However, I tell you today. You shall find peace and happiness with a man soon. Just keep smiling, be good to everyone, take your mind off men for now and care and concentrate on herself first. Build your healing process. Go out and have fun. Exercise if you can. Experiment with food and friends. Allow your mind to breath and heal properly. Now my dear, don't be quick to open your heart, just in case you meet another man during your healing journey. Stay as friends, study his behavior, visit his family to understand the relationship he has with them. You need to exercise self control, so he won't take advantage of you. Do not get intimate. Engage with him in a meaningful conversation. Do more of talking. You need to learn how to move in a SLOW PACE so you won't get hurt again. Train your mind, learn to restrain( learn restrain) is a very important key. Don't be fast to yield.
Gradually, a man will fall in love with you. When they see that you are strong-willed, even when he has truly fallen, still don't get intimate, very key. and don't get easily deceived. The toxic one will leave and the good one will stay. ( often times is not always the case sha) However, you would continue this exercise until you meet your man. Your soulmate. Your peace and happiness. If you exercise self control and restrain( if you know what I mean). This will work for you as I have helped a lot of beautiful ladies with toxic men.
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, ALWAYS PUT GOD FIRST, PRAYER HELPS A LOT, IT WILL GUIDE YOU AND OPEN YOUR EYES FAST, TO DANGERS.
I wish you resilience, happiness, peace, and above all, love, my dear.
May you find the man of your dreams soon.
YOUR STORY REALLY TOUCHED ME. SO SORRY YOU HAD TO GO THROUGH ALL THOSE PAIN.
Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful words. Self control is key like you said. I will do as you say. I am grateful for your support and kind words.
You're welcome my lovely.