RE: Generous or selfish?
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Hi @miriannalis, me again for your blog.
Your cute post brought back memories of when I lived with my parents and siblings. I am the eldest of my brothers, and my case was opposite to the one you experienced. I've always been concerned about saving, even before working, even without having worked for Chamo. When the money came to me, I kept it and used it to buy clothes or colognes. That was my thing. When I started working, that got bolted on more, and I was buying really good stuff.
Well, it turned out that my little brothers, Luis and Enrique, sneaked into my things and secretly grabbed my clothes, my cologne, and that made me explode. This is where the good comes in: Mom, she used to tell me: Don't be angry, don't be selfish, they are your little brothers.
That all ended when I decided to leave home. Being independent was like opening a chest of good wishes; everything was wonderful.
Now, after reading your post and remembering, I miss my brothers. Two of them died, and the other three are far away.
I loved your participation.
I send you a lot of love from this side of the planet.
!ALIVE
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Hahaha... I think that this situation between siblings is a daily occurrence in most families... these days I saw a very nice post on Instagram, where a therapist talked about the importance of healing the relationship with siblings and realizing that in our lives they are great teachers, precisely because they teach us things like that, sharing or defending our own, setting limits, managing jealousy, envy, leadership, how to stand out, etc, etc... I agree with the therapist in all of that.
Every family member shows us and teaches us something, even in distance, or in absence...sorry they are no longer with you.
A hug for you 🤗