RE: Am I Arrogant.....!

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Ah, I love reading this about you. Somehow, it makes sense to me that you might have some of these traits of being firmer in your boundaries and communications than other women around you.

I don't know how it's received in your culture differently than it might be here but we also experience something similar. Women who are strong, confident, clear and firm are often seen as arrogant.

But when they are viewed by others, women and men, who are strong and confident in themselves, they don't see these traits or this way of being as a 'problem' but rather as a strength they are grateful for.

I love being around strong clear women. Makes sense that I like you so much :)

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Women who are strong, confident, clear and firm are often seen as arrogant.

Perhaps, the world wants to see women as fragile, shy and doubtful. So confidence and clarity becomes indigestible 🤔

I love being around strong clear women. Makes sense that I like you so much :)

Oh, that's a compliment I will treasure for ever.

How have you been, sister @consciouscat . Long time

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I'm good, sister. I have been busy building things in my business and have struggled to keep up my writing both there and here. But things are good.

Our granddaughter is good (Brad's son had a daughter 11 months ago... or rather, Brad's son's girlfriend had a daughter. Haha. Speaking of strong, capable women!) and the rest of my family are doing mostly okay.

I'm going to a business conference related to my line of work in a couple of weeks so I'm really looking forward to that. I get to spend time with people who really understand the weird and wonderful things I know that most people don't understand at all. So that's always nice.

And I've been running a lot! Brad, who runs every day, encouraged me to run more often and invited me to run with him each morning. He had noticed that my stress levels were lower and my sleep was better when I was getting more exercise. So I've managed to run most days with him for a couple weeks and keen to keep it up. My legs are sore (!) but I do think it's good for me.

How are you doing?

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I get to spend time with people who really understand the weird and wonderful things I know that most people don't understand at all. So that's always nice.

It's going to be an enriching experience, I believe. I can relate to the experience of joy when we are amidst the people whose intellect is similar to ours

And I've been running a lot! Brad, who runs every day, encouraged me to run more often and invited me to run with him each morning.

That's wonderful 🤩

How are you doing?

I am doing well as in.
Trying to disentagle things in my mind. Sort of decluttering, disciplining, prioritising. Honestly speaking, at present, I am feeling lost and stuck, wondering where to start and proceed.

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