RE: Admitted.

Thank you very much!

"From time to time" is the key, the time between the events. It had become too regularly for my taste, hence my decisions. I do go overboard sometimes, when Lily is not here, and it's fine. The last time was a huge wedding, and it was a lot of fun to get reasonably drunk and then switch to water for the rest of the evening. And I hadn't planned for anything on the next day, on purpose :-D