@Indiaunited Contest - Theme: How do you want to be remembered?
My response to the @Indiaunited Contest - Theme: How do you want to be remembered?
After we die there are ways that people remember us with and it all depends on what impressions we have left on them. Not everyone has the same experience of us while we are alive, so when we die not everyone is going to think the same of us. Some may remember us fondly and some may not.
Personally when I die, I would like that people remember me fondly with the feeling of love. I have no intention that people remember me for any achievements I have made, because that's very common. All I would expect is that when they think of me all they should feel is love and no hard feelings should come up. Because that's where they will remember me for a long time. What is the use if I have made big achievements but not been nice to people and they have bitter memories of my character.
When you remember someone with love, you feel joy within and it uplifts your mood, that's what I would want to do after I am gone, but for that I need to do such things while I am alive that people develop those loving feelings for me. While I believe in this I am not sure how much of it will be true when I am gone. There are times when I have to be nasty with some people because of their actions, so I am sure those people are never going to remember me fondly. But then I cannot please everyone while I am alive, so I have to accept the hard reality of life and live practically.
At large also if people think of me fondly, somewhere up there I will feel that I lived a very fulfilling life, and some exceptions will always be there. I would want to be remembered as a loving mother, wife, sister, daughter, friend, acquaintance and all the relationships that I am in.
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I think being remembered for something great is really something which everyone wants. You just get a sort of satisfaction after doing something great and being knowing for it, it actually values a lot and it's also good for your young one's, you be the aspiration and a guide for them making them do execl or even others as well!!
I just believe once you are gone, nothing matters. Yes, but being remembered for doing good things carry a legacy
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It's more honorable to be remembered with love rather than achievements. Such a simple yet profound way to think about life and the impact we leave behind
Achievements will soon be forgotten but the way you touched hearts will be remembered forever
Yes that's the honest truth
This is one of the sweetest post I have read so far. I really enjoyed reading your personal preference.
Definitely not possible to please everyone and leave a good lasting impression on all the people we will come across. But I think viewing it from the perspective of those that really matter and doing our best to help them and be there for them is acceptable enough to tip the scale in our own favour. Love is a really powerful feeling that can transcend realities :)
Yes, even if just your inner-circle feels that, it's all worth it.
Yea, we can't please everyone , neither should we live a fake life to please others, rather we live practically , doing our best . For sure, our good part will be remembered by many💞