Life Is Beautiful But Increasingly Expensive...

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... or a brief foray into my recent life, pictures, and events!

I sit, more and more often, like the poet who sits in front of the white writing sheet, pencil in hand, waiting for inspiration to come. Sometimes it comes quickly but sometimes it is so late that I begin to worry. I have an advantage over the poor poet, who has only a pencil and paper.

I rely on and have great help from my photos. All my blogs are full of photos because, unlike real writers, I don't write a story and then illustrate it with a few photos. I always start with the photos. I go to my little archive and search through the photos until their story starts to turn into my story. Generally, that saves me and helps me make another post.

I've been looking at photos for a while without something taking hold. I don't know what to choose... and that's when the idea came. To pick a folder of more recent photos and write about all of them as I remember them from what I did in those days while trying to fit into the theme of writing on Friday when it's #MarketFriday.

I have a feeling this will be a post with lots of pictures and relatively few words.

Glasses

The first photos I see are from the mall near my house. It's the newest mall in Bucharest, a rather tormented mall. It was supposed to be the biggest mall in the city, the name says it all, Colosseum, but when the construction started the real estate crisis started. They postponed it for years, many years. Then, when they decided, the pandemic began, the pandemic ended, the energy crisis began, the massive price increases... Finally, the mall was built, only instead of being the biggest, it ended up being the smallest. A small, small mall with few visitors.

I went to the mall to buy glasses. In fact, to order another pair of glasses, distance glasses, because I had just lost the others.

The loss of the glasses also has a story and proof of the bad luck that is my "good friend".

A few days before, I went for a medical check-up at the cardiologist. A checkup I was afraid of. The result was not so bad, in the sense that it postponed the outcome but at least I didn't have to have surgery. In the euphoria of the moment, I lost my glasses.

Glasses for distance seeing. I could live without them but I couldn't drive the car without them. In a few days, I would be going to Balchik, Bulgaria, so it was imperative to have the glasses.

"My friend", bad luck, is always by my side when I have to go on a trip. There are always extra expenses before departure, expenses that bite into the holiday budget...

In this case, the doctor's visit cost $110, the glasses cost $100, and the medication and travel insurance another hundred dollars. Car insurance, which "coincidentally" just expired, is $200. A total of expenses of over $500, not directly related to the vacation.

Life is beautiful but increasingly expensive...

I've just started writing and I already feel like I'm going to disavow what I stated above. If I were to follow the thread and the order of the photos, it would result in a very long post and I think that is not good. Yesterday I posted something quite long and I noticed something I have noticed for a long time. Namely, that too-long posts started to bore readers. Probably the same time crisis that affects us all...

I jump back in time and over a few photos and reach the road to Balchik, to Bulgaria, to the Black Sea.

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High and growing expense. Gasoline. More and more expensive to drive. In fact, by any means of transport.
The gasoline for a trip to Balchik and back cost almost $70.

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Time has another dimension in photographs. It flows differently, like in a movie. From the photo on the highway, I can jump straight to Balchik.

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Passiflora is a flower that I like very much. Here it is on the wall of the hotel where we stayed on our short holiday. Three nights, a little (two days) before the season opened, so at a substantial discount, cost $110.

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Lunch, the most substantial meal for two, cost an average of $25/day. Of course, simple and tasty food. We looked for the usual Bulgarian food.

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Breakfast and morning coffee cost, also approximately, also for two, $15/day.

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The gorgeous view and the streets flowing to the sea are much to my liking. That costs nothing.

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A simple calculation leads me to the conclusion that the three-night trip to Bacic cost $300, that is if I exclude the tickets to visit the castle and Queen Mary's gardens and if I exclude, of course, other purchases of gifts and souvenirs... but these didn't exceed $100.

Today is #MarketFriday initiated by @dswigle (Denise, that's her!). It started as a challenge and has grown into a much-loved community here. I can brag about something...

We always have to put a flower at the end, #alwaysaflower, and now more than ever, flowers from Balchik.

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Most times I always wondered why do we need to live 😔

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I remember you telling me about that mall! I couldn't believe what poor luck they had. It was bad enough that every time they blinked, the timing was off. Then Covid? That killed even the strongest of stores. It was pretty much unbelievable, yes? I cannot possibly count that as your bad luck. It was the luck of the universe. And it was a shame. We are experiencing an even worse fate, perhaps not worse, but certainly not a good thing.

You losing your glasses at the doctor - over really good news, in my opinion. That was worth it. Not the best timing, but, a reason to celebrate! I was very happy to hear and we all know how fleeting life is, so, I take all the good I can out of it. I suppose we all do. I was so happy to see you got to Balchik this year. You weren't sure it was going to happen, and yet, it did. I don't think length has much of anything to do with the posts. I have trouble getting out of my own comment section and many people have taken to the less than ten words worth of comment. Many are commenting less, posting less, or posting big long ones that take forever to write. I had to stop doing anything for a while for self-preservation. I had a lot going on, nothing to do with me and so, I could spin my wheels and do nothing or take some time and gather my wits about me. Then I went where no internet could reach... there are all sorts of reasons. I understand what you mean, if you stop you won't come back. That is the fear.

You are such a kind and thoughtful person, Dan. Don't force yourself to do the Markets. It is hard to do it every week and yet, you and JJ never miss it. It is so very admirable, but, I want you to be excited about posting. If you are not, you may be just a little burnt out. I was burning out, I am not ashamed to say, but, I feel much better now. It cost me some of my support, but, I am okay with that too. I like it here and I needed to back up for a moment of three and breathe.

I love your posts, and your stories, and if they are feeling uninspired, take a few days off. Don't go near the computer and you may surprise yourself at how rested you become. We are so worried about being left behind or missing something, we hate to step back.

Step back doesn't mean forever, sometimes it is merely a few days. It has been over six months for me of posting once a week. I was gone for two months but, I am feeling so much better.

I admire your tenacity, but, don't forget about taking care of yourself. Okay?

You know #MarketFriday loves you!

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You're right, of course. Losing the glasses was a minor fact besides the joy of not needing surgery (but, in fact, that means that surgery could not improve the condition, which is not good...)

I love that you sit me next to JJ! It reminds me of something that happened many years ago, I don't know if you remember. All three of us were involved. I came up with the proposal that you make marketfriday a competition with prizes, I had seen something similar and it seemed like something that would attract a lot of participants. I think you said it would be too much work to manage the contest and so I offered to help, I don't know how. Then JJ and another lady who had some sort of radio in Steemit, now I haven't seen her, got mad at me, and jumped in to defend you from me, which they thought I wanted to steal your challenge! JJ wrote a very harsh comment, he got mad at me. In the meantime, the anger has passed and we are pretty close now.

Your advice to relax a bit is very good. I want to find an optimal way to continue but I still need to research, observe where Hive wants to go, see if I can go too. There's a lot to say but I'm tired now, I think I'll continue this commentary the next few days.
Happy weekend Denise!

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I do remember that!!! I remember who you are talking about! Jenny from the radio on Steemit, who was also one of the admins on SteemUSA. As with everything else in life, the misunderstood becomes more clear with time.

I agree about where Hive wants to go, not sure if I will be relatable, but, only time will tell. I'm sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you...

Time. Always about the time.

I hope you have a nice night!

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I don't remember (the night), but I think it was too hot. We have a much too hot summer...

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The mall looks very empty. And I know, probably because people can't afford to go to the malls often these days.
I went to a few optical stores in the last few months for a new pair of glasses for my -2.25 eyes! And yes, the price was almost double compared to the last time I bought one. Life is expensive!

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You've had quite a busy few weeks! It sounds like you had a great time in Balchik, despite the extra expenses. The photos are beautiful, and I love the way you've incorporated them into your story.

I can relate to the feeling of bad luck always seeming to strike when you're planning a trip. It seems like there's always something that goes wrong, and it can be so frustrating. But it's also important to remember that the good times always outweigh the bad.

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I'm so glad you like my photos. Thank you!

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