Divorce Lawyer Talks About Marriage for an Hour James Sexton packed so many ...

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... details into this hour I cannot even explain it succinctly. If you are wondering if he believe in "True Love", he has seen 1 case in his entire life! He has a great sense of humor!



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I got recommended a Lex Fridman Podcast that is very long. After listing to it partially, it seems to be the same points above elaborated further. You can watch that if prefer to take your time and learn slowly. James Sexton is far better than a marriage counselors.



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There might be some sampling bias in his experience!

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Most of the time he spend is on couples getting divorced. 56% of marriages end up in divorce. He is a person to get advise on what not to do because he see failed marriages all the time.

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There is a Meditation to reduce sexual cravings.

Very worthwhile imo.

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I have been focusing mostly on Ānāpānasati and Mettā. I don't have a big problem with sexual cravings. I'm focused on calming my mind down to achieve Samādhi.

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Ah okay, yeah, different people need different things.

I was referring to the part where the Sr. Citizen still craved for sexual intimacy and how it harmed him in the end.

  1. Is Metta @loving-kindness meditation?

  2. Is Anapanasati, Breathing Mindfulness Meditation?

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  1. Yes. "Friendship" is the closest translation to Metta. It comes form the word Mitra which means friend. But English translations often use loving kindness.

  2. Yes!

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  1. Breathing Mindfulness Meditation.
  2. Metta.

Are two of my top daily practices.

  • What are your thoughts about the word Dukkha?

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Wow, $200 million - $300 million USD.

Insane... the lawyer said he'd sleep with the guy for that much 😅

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Very true about all marriages ending.

Everything around us will eventually change and end.

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Only those who did not center God in their relationship or both couples have opposite beliefs.

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The ending I am referring to is death.

Marriage ends with death, and everything around us also ends.

And yet, the following things do not change :

  • Unconditional Love.
  • Natural Laws of Existence.
  • The Enlightenment State.

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... I know a lot of people these days would rather believe in earthly advice than biblical wisdom.

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That's because some will only pay attention to and understand the wisdom of God and will choose the things that are visible to the eyes. But the secret of a happy marriage is to serve God and each other.

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