NEVER TRY AND FORCE ANYONE TO STAY.

Never try and force anyone to choose you.

Never try and force anyone to stay.

If they think they can find something better somewhere else, let them go.

Let them find out for themselves if they’re right.

Don’t hold them back.

Because if they stay, you want them to stay because their heart tells them that this is where they belong.

Not because you asked them to stay…

You deserve to be someone’s choice, not just an option.

You deserve someone who understands your worth and who sees your value.

And you deserve someone who appreciates what you bring to their life.

Never try and force someone to stay simply out of the fear of loneliness, attachment, or the love that you hold for them.

Because you want someone who will stay because of who you are, not who they want you to be.

Give them the freedom of choice.

Leave your door open should they want to leave.

And if they think their happiness lies somewhere else, don’t stand in their way.

Because you want someone who is sure about you, not someone who is unsure about whether or not they want you, or how they feel about you.

When the right person comes along, you won’t need to worry about them leaving.

Because even though you’ve given them the freedom to leave, they won’t want to.

They'll stay because of you...

So if someone wants to leave, let them leave.

And in the meantime, continue working on yourself and building your own life.

Because your happiness doesn’t depend on the presence of someone who wants to walk away…

It depends on your own ability to blossom…

Don't sacrifice your happiness for a woman.
Don't train any sister because you want to marry her after graduation.
Don't give any woman a life that you have not given to yourself.

Dont pedestalize any woman.
Don't empower any woman unless you are 90x better than her.

Listen to me brothers: IF you know how fast women forget the good deeds and sacrifices you did for her, you will fear women.

The truth is, all the things you are doing for her means absolutely nothing to her and you will only discovers this when she finds your replacement and that is not difficult for her.

The only time women remember is the bad you did to them and not the good.
A woman's loyalty is not guaranteed.
Anything you are doing for a woman just count it as loss, never do for a woman what you can not let go.
Be wise...

Choosing a partner is a big decision.

Love will fade, obsession will reduce but a Kind heart won’t.

You want someone who will make you happy and treat you well. The most important thing to look for is kindness.

A kind partner will care about you and show it. They understand you and support you.

They treat you well every day, not just when it's easy. They listen to you and talk to you honestly.

They respect you, even when you disagree.

When problems come, a kind partner will try to solve them calmly and respectfully. They won't yell or get angry.

You feel like you can be yourself and that they will always be there for you. Love will fade but a kind heart will never change

Two things you should never chase.

WOMEN.
And
MONEY.

The reason is that this things are not what you chase after, they are not what you pursue.

This things are what you attract by who you become.

What you should chase is VALUES.

That's the secret behind attracting those two.

To get women you just have to be more charismatic but to get money you have to be a whole lot more than being charismatic.

Everything resides in values, the more valuable you become, the more powerful you are and that's when you attract both.

It's a simple clarity.

So when we say Instead of chasing money or women, chase purpose.

This is what we mean, we mean do something valuable with your life that will make you more of a valuable person.

Go for self improvement, learn a skill, a trade.

Just do something meaningful with your life.

Have a Lovely Weekend On Earth

Stay putinized.