My kind of Marriage.
Hello everyone, welcome to the weekly activities of hive reachout community.I am quin.lizzy and today I will be writing about the kind of marriage I prefer,but before I continue I would like to explain what marriage is and it's type;
Marriage according to my point of view is the union between man and a woman to be joined in holy matrimony(to become husband and wife). Marriage is between two persons who have agreed to come together because of love or children to be joined as one.We have different types of marriages; traditional,court and religious marriage.
Traditional marriage is the kind of marriage that has to do with the joining together of a man and a woman in the presence of the family and friends according to their traditions.The usually have requirements that most be met before the elders can give their blessings,like the Eggon tribe in Nigeria, the groom most provide ebekmeh for the brides family and other requirements.
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Court marriage(wedding),this involves the couples going to the court and each sign an agreement under the witness of a lawyer or judge.This type of marriage is indeed prominent in today's world.
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Religious marriage,this is the kind of marriage where the head of your religion joins who is ready to get married according to his or her religion by taking an oath till death do them part.
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As a Christian,we actually go for the white wedding,I will prefer this kind of marriage because I strongly believe that any marriage that has the blessings of God will surely be Peaceful and joyous even though marriage is not all about bed of roses,but with God it's going to be a lot easier.
Secondly,I would prefer religious marriage cause even though a perfect marriage does not have a guide to go about it but with the teachings(counseling) and instructions received before marriage will surely go a long way to avoiding big mistakes to building up a family.
Thirdly,My parents got married by both religious and traditional marriage and I would like to be married this way,indeed our environment affects us and our beliefs and I think when it's a positive effect,then there will be no call to be alarm.
I wouldn't say it's just the kind of marriage that determines how well the home will be but it has a long way to helping to shapen it in a right way,indeed a good home depends always on the individuals involved and how much the know and understand the important of building a better and loving home,I always say,for anything to be good,it first starts with the individuals mindset this always apply to marriage,it starts with the two heart ready make it work.
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Marriage ain't actually bed of roses the deeper you dive in the more stronger you need to be, the more understanding and tolerating y'all need to be for each other and for the entire family.
Indeed,the deeper you go in,the more understanding and tolerating the couples have to be for the peace of the family, thanks for your thoughts
qiun Lizzy Thank you for choosing both Traditional and religious marriage.God support all the type of marriage if they are done in the right way.
Make sure you invite me ooo.
Smile.
Thank
You're already invited am just waiting to find the right partner, thank you
@quin.lizzy, I see you're passionate about Christianity, well everyone have their choices and reason for choosing it
Yes sir,getting it right is all that matters