Transparency is not worth losing privacy
Every relationship is important, and it needs to be maintained properly. Depending on the relationship, it requires different things, and in the case of a partner, as well as a life partner or future life partner, trust is the most important thing in the relationship. In this kind of relationship, thoughts can be different from person to person, as everyone has their unique thoughts as well as their unique personality.
It says that transparency in a relationship is needed, as it can strengthen the relationship. Being transparent helps partners to avoid misunderstanding. From one perspective, it is a very good thing, but it can be the opposite if we think about it from a different perspective. There is another important thing, which is privacy. And in this digital world, having privacy has become more important, as maintaining privacy is the most difficult thing. The most difficult question is, is it ok to maintain privacy even in a relationship between partners? The one simple answer is that privacy should be maintained at any cost. So this is somehow conflicting with transparency. If there is full transparency in a relationship, then there is no privacy between partners. And if there is privacy between partners, then there is no full transparency.
One thing is very clear: that a relationship between partners cannot maintain full transparency and privacy at the same time. Which one should one person choose? Privacy or transparency? Is it okay for partners to share everything between them? Just like sharing a Facebook password or other personal account password?
In my opinion, I think every human is individual, and nobody is a 100% match for each other. So differences between natural and having different thoughts on a topic are also expected. Many times, a boyfriend/girlfriend/partner asks for the password of a personal social media account. Some people think that one should share because it's a sign of complete trust in a partner. Is it the real scenario? I think you just made a totally ridiculous statement. I was never in a relationship, but I can say very well that such a thing is against privacy, and when something goes against privacy, it is not a healthy relationship. Asking for the password of a social media account is not a sign of trust. It's the sign of doubt. The thing is very clear: a partner is doubting that the partner is cheating, and that's why, for security purposes, they are asking for the password. And that means zero trust in the partner, and I believe that it is better to end a relationship with someone who doesn't trust their partner well.
I know there are some lovebirds also who may disagree with the statement, saying that it's necessary. I find it funny when I see people also try to defend themselves by supporting this statement. It's like they are doing the wrong thing; that means things will be just right, saying or supporting this. Wrong means wrong, and it doesn't matter if you are on the wrong side of the right side. Just because you are on the wrong side won't change the truth. My statement is very clear about it, and privacy is very important, and it is more important than being transparent.
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In a relationship that there's no trust it better that the partners should part things than staying in that relationship. In a relationship privacy and transparency is important and needed as long it won't affect the relationship then no problem. Balance and trust is what matter in a relationship.
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I.also believe that transparency is needed in a relationship. Thanks for sharing
Losing privacy for the name of transparency also like your partner don't trust you fully either. So, I would love to free from such a relationship where I don't have privacy. I need my privacy more than transparency as well as a relationship.
Being honest and transparent with one's spouse or partner is good. As to privacy, I think it depends on the person. I don't mind if my husband opens my social media account or knows my passwords to my emails, etc.
You trust your husband and it's good but still I feel your husband don't have the right to ask for it. You are ready to share and he is asking for it two are different? I also think that your husband also respect your privacy also even if you don't mind and it means the complete trust.
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I understand this point of view. Transparency is important, but it has its limits, and that limit is precisely privacy. The idea that sharing passwords or revealing everything to your partner is a sign of trust seems interesting to me, but true trust is when you don't need to monitor the other person. So, yes, I agree that privacy must come before full transparency, because without it, the relationship becomes control, not partnership.
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Hmm. That's also my point. If partners trust, there is no need to invade the privacy of partners, and if they do so, I think there is no trust. It's very simple in my eyes.
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I honestly see no reason why partners request for each other’s password. It’s okay if it’s told willingly or spotted probably when m on my phone but I don’t support it being demanded. Just as you stated.. I take it as distrust when it’s being asked. Because the first question I would ask is WHY?
On the other hand, I strongly believe there’s a level of transparency you’d build with a partner that such things like passwords wouldn’t be placed as too important and that happens in the assurance you have in your partner.
I once had a guy who linked my WhatsApp to his, and even when I found out, I let him read to his satisfaction before ending things up with him on the stand point of not trusting me enough to ask questions and rather choose to invade my privacy and that’s it for me.
I guess a partner don't need password to see what's going on unless the partner need full access of social media account. If asked, It should be doubted.
I don't use facebook but I have account. Even if my partner asked for my account password, I won't give it. In fact, in such a case, I will be ready to break the relationship without any hesitation. My privacy is more important than transparency.
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Your words are very thoughtful and clear, privacy in needed in every relationship, friendship and even married.
This truly help to avoid misunderstanding, most especially when things are going very wrong..
Nice one sir