Money change people, money does not give happiness

Every day I keep asking myself "how much money do i need to make to live a happy life?" it was just few years ago that i do the maths and then find out that, money does not give happiness at all, but happiness is gotten from what we like to do. Maybe, "an improve activities we realized, or something that really seem so interesting to us.

To what I understand is that, money only change people, and you find some of these people who allow it, bringing up a total new lifestyle, different from what you know of them.

For me, if at any point, someone i know does something like this, you will find me giving him/her some space, and be watching from a far, because doing this, just shown that the person needs some space.

But, someone i know have done something of this nature, he is the first son in their family, and on that time, he got some fund's from a company that used their lands for a specific period of time.

I didn't know something like this was going on, and by that time, I was in the orientation camp, so while there, people I easily communicate with were my family, and that girlfriend of mine that lastly took my heart away 😁😁

So, after the orientation, I recalled that i sent him a text, but he responded to me very harsh, i felt bad from his response, and I had to finds out why, later on, it was known that he was on funds, and that makes him to talk the way he likes to people.

I stopped my involvement with him, and it was when the money got finished that he called, and apologize, it was not a big deal, because, i believe if God forgive our sins, who am I, not to forgive someone if he/she apologize.

Yet, there are still people out there that money don't change them, will I say, they are few in the world or what!

The deal is, these set of people do not allow that energy from money to temper with their lifestyle, they are still themselves at every time and places.

I know a lot of people out there will want to believe that, it is money that brings happiness, but it's not, and with this, i can say that, the challenges we have on a daily basis, has make us to forget what is true happiness.

If you want to understand this, just wait at any day a child want to play with you, tell the child you are not going to play with him/her, but you will give him money, then, see if the child is going to be happy.

The child will not be happy, because as at that time, his/her happiness would've been to play the game with you, but as an adult, it isn't the same, we at times trade most things for money, because we know that we need it to take care of stuff's that were bothering us.

Happiness is simply the interest of walking in a very narrow road, while not expecting to get anything, other's we do, are not for true happiness, but for survival.

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