What Will You Do When Love And Family Collide?

I see love as very wide, a beautiful thing, it can just walk up to you at any moment. It can embrace you with a woman's body and suddenly you are already dreaming of a future with someone you never knew from Adam and when you are around them it feels like you are at home.

But have you ever thought what will happen when the person who makes your heart beat and put butterflies in your belly is someone your family can't stand?

Imagine finding your missing ribs, the one you can't imagine life without, only to find your family is so much against that person.
It can be very sad and very heartbreaking and that part is not always clear.

So tell me what would you do?
Would you rather abandon your family and run away far away from them with your lover or try to fight and convince your family? Or just ignore the opinions of others or your family and walk away from that love? Or maybe what? Find no one or find another one?

How are we going to navigate this messy dilemma?
First, for me, I'll just take a deep breath and listen. Although it might be tempting and might sound romantic just the way we see on movie but I don't think that will really be helpful in reality.

Running might feel like you are free at last but it could just be build a wall between you and your family and those who have been taking care of you from when you're a kid and have shaped your life to where you are now and honestly you cannot carry that weight for a long time, it might weigh you down, because no matter what you cannot neglect your foundation and leave a happy happy future.

You choose to make connection instead of confrontation. Have you thought about just sitting down with your family, this time around not to argue but to make them understand why you feel this way and why you choose the partner, sometimes it might just be a little misunderstanding or a belief that never align, but then you have to share the truth and tell your family why this person lights up your day and how they have made you better and why you believe in their love.

It is not about convincing them to love your partner, but it's about helping them to see the journey relationship as brought to you. So if they still don't try to understand you don't have to still ignore them but you can just stay and let their choices or disapproval affect your own choice too.

I know families matter family is everything you have but also does your happiness, so what happens when your family that you love so much wants to take your happiness. It is your family or your happiness. That is a very tight situation. For me, I will keep the door open for them to come around.

I also want them to come and see my partner and how good we are together. meanwhile I will build my life with my love rooted with trust, our thoughts and mutual respect. It is still knowing that love is still worth fighting for. I cannot also abandon who my family said I should leave.

Here is the fact, love doesn't have to be a battle, you can just honor your family's place in your life. Why is he making the right choice of your partner who lights up your world. I know it is not easy but it's still possible.

When you choose the path of love, in all forms, it will lead you to success and you're still going to win at last.


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That’s true. The effect of someone’s presence in your life is always very obvious so when they see how your life has been ever since you found your partner, I’m sure they’ll reconsider.

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