FACTS ABOUT INTROVERTS|| BEING AN INTROVERT...

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From my research, about 30-50 of the worlds population are introverts.
My name is Maduabuchi Anointed Chidera A.K.A Chiddy, and I'm an introvert.

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For a while, i spent a lot of time alone, and I've had time to make my analysis, based on the type of person I am and also my siblings.
I come from a family of 6 children and 4 of us are strong introverts, then 1 is an extrovert then the other 1 an ambivert.

One of the first things I discovered about introverts is that they give in 100% to what ever thing they decide to do.
When they set a goal they don't back down till they've accomplished It.
I for one is very good example, I've been able to accomplish a number of things because I have the time and passion for it, e.g Barbing, music productions, bass playing e.t.c All of this is based on the fact that i placed my mind on it.

Let me tell you a little secret; when it comes to music, the only thing I learnt for a little while to some extent is my Tonic sulfur notations and this is because I joined an Anglican choir at a young age.
Everything other thing I've achieved except bass playing I didn't entirely by my self, take music production for as an example all I did was to find the software that allows me to manipulate sounds, I started out making lame beats, but today I make one of the best beats you can imagine just using my mobile device and the DAW called Fruity Loops.

Second thing I decovered is that introverts tends to have an unbalanced emotional status.
You never can fully understand them. They always lack control over at least one vital emotion. If you know an introvert that smiles a lot check him/her you'll find they are strict and principled person, then those who seem to have a strong face are the soft hearted ones, I call them big babies, once you get to know them and they trust you, you'll never wish for another friend.

Third and the most important of all is that they have trust issues, and are very hard to convince, but once they trust, they trust 100%.

Finally Introvert have what I call a one channel faculty, my mum will always tell me that I have a one channel mind due to the fact that when I'm doing something, all my focus and attention especially when I'm doing something I love. Introverts are often strong minded and stubborn but also very caring, loving and generous persons. One thing is for sure you don't want to be on their bad side or black list, you'll prefer to meet the devil 😅😅.

My advice all introverts out there is that, being an introvert isn't a bad thing, you can be the best introvert out there in the world.
But you must develop act of fluent communication, go out in the world there alot of things in stock for you, don't look down on your person, learning to face your biggest fear which is SHAME.

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This is all I have to say for now, please feel free to leave your own opinion and personal discovery on the comments section.

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YOUR BOY CHIDDY.



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Thank you very much, I'm hoping I'll do better in future.

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It's so unique how you explained this in detail,I have met a couple of introverts and I realize all they need is someone to trust enough,they are just guided cause of how emotional they can be at times,you won't know this until you get so close to them.

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I like that you got the message I'm trying to pass across 😇...

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Where's the lie?
You've said a lot about us😩🤧
And we need to start learning how to go out of our comfort zone cause omoh...
I personally find it difficult to associate with people, I don't feel safe at all
but at the same time, I do feel for people I'm close to cause I always cling to them always 😂
but we will get to learn better some days...
Thanks for sharing this with us🤭

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😅, I can relate with you, it's a whole lot to deal with, but trust me, it gets better 🤗

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That lack of communication is a.ig problem because not everyone can understand silence if it is not voiced out. Either intro or extrovert there must be communication. Thank you for sharing this wonderful piece

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Well said bro, communication is key, no matter what.
It's my pleasure to share this piece With y'all 😊

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