Triggers and Motivations: What Shapes My Journey.

There are certain things in life that just push our buttons and others that gives us the energy to keep going. It’s part of being human. For me, these triggers and motivations shape the way I handle relationships and challenges.

Now, what Annoys Me??

One thing that really gets under my skin is when people refuse to take accountability. I admire people who can admit when they’re wrong, apologize, and move on. I believe that shows maturity and humility. We’re all human, and we’re bound to make mistakes—it’s normal. But when someone tries to justify their actions or find excuses instead of owning up to their fault, it frustrates me. I believe relationships grow stronger when people acknowledge their wrongs and work to make things right. Deflecting blame or pretending to be right when you’re clearly not? That’s something I just can’t stand.

Another thing that annoys me deeply is being lied against. I’m not perfect—nobody is—and I can admit when I mess up. But when someone accuses me of something I didn’t do, it infuriates me. It’s not just about the accusation itself; it’s the fact that I have to defend my integrity for something I wasn’t even involved in. There was an incident back in my third year at university. A close friend of mine lied about something I supposedly did, and the worst part was that he brushed it off as a joke. The person he lied to didn’t take it lightly, and it led to a fight. I couldn’t just let that slide because it made me so annoyed , and we stopped talking for months because of that. Being lied against makes me feel helpless because no one should have to fight so hard to prove their innocence over a baseless claim.

On the other hand, there are a few things that truly keep me going. First and foremost, music. Music has this way of lifting my mood and giving me energy, no matter how drained or unmotivated I feel. Whether I’m exercising, studying, or just dealing with life’s ups and downs, playing the right song always seems to help. I’m drawn to fast-paced songs because of their ability to lift me up and put me in a bright light. But then there are days when I prefer slower songs with beautiful melodies—they calm me down and give me clarity. Music is literally a therapy session for me. It’s my way of resetting and finding balance.

The second source of my energy is my mum. She’s my biggest inspiration and my strongest motivation. Thinking about everything she’s done for me keeps me going, even on the hardest days.She has sacrificed so much to make sure I get a good education and have a better future. So, whenever I feel like giving up—whether it’s in school or in life—I remind myself that I’m not just doing this for me. I’m doing it for her, too. The thought of making her proud and giving her the happiness she deserves is what pushes me to keep striving for success. Even when I’m exhausted and don’t feel like picking up a book to read, I remind myself that every effort counts towards building the future she dreams of for me.

At the end of the day, these emotions—what annoys me and what energizes me—shape who I am. They remind me of what I stand for, what I value, and the kind of person I want to be. And honestly i think that is what life is all about, finding a balance between the things that drain you and the things that lift you.

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