experiences with death : WEEK 224
What experiences have you had with the death of a loved one or pet? How did it affect you at the time and from now on?
We have all lost family members, great friends and beloved pets, but no mother and father talk about death with their children or prepare them for when they are gone, we all assume that we will live to be 100 years old and die old, that is what happened to me in my family when several relatives in less than a month among them my parents died at that time I was a young fool who did not understand anything of this life my mind was a chaos I wondered what wrong we had done and some neighbors said that my family was cursed I just wanted to die many times I thought and planned it, but thank GOD my grandmother was there to shelter me and protect me she never left me alone she always protected me and taught me things that I did not know at the time.
she told me that life was very short that any of us could die at any moment in an accident, a sudden cardiac arrest or even sleeping as was the case of a schoolmate who died in his sleep no one can guarantee that he will have a long life in this world no matter how much he takes care of himself and feeds himself or plays sports if it is his turn it is simply over we must accept that death walks by our side from the very moment we are born, but we should not fear it, what we should do is to take advantage of the miracle and the blessing of being alive every day and if we are also healthy and we have people who love us we should try to make our life worthwhile and as close as possible to what our heart and soul dictates and we want our life to be or at least try to honor those who are no longer alive today.
Living that experience at a young age left an imprint on my life that somehow transformed it.The innocent and fragile child I was became a stronger and more aware person of the things around me Today I live with full awareness of what death is, so I fear it less than before.The goal of each of us is to give love The more love you give, the more alive you feel, or at least that's my case.
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Not really funny losing our relatives
The greatest pain a human being can experience is the death of a loved one because it is a wound that does not heal completely every time I remember them: the wound bleeds.
It is precisely a matter of not living thinking about dying, even though death has marked our lives from personal experiences and through our own family.
It is hard to recover from all this, but we must learn to live in balance after such hard blows, your grandmother showed you the way and thanks to that you are today an extremely strong person with a beautiful family that wants to be by your side protected by your great love and dedication.
That's right Yohana thank you very much for the visit. Have a nice Sunday.
The death of a loved one is a feeling that is hard to let go of, I can tell when I lost my Mum, it felt like my world scrabbled and I couldn't feel myself, a part was lost as well. I'm currently in the process of finding that part of me.
The love that binds us to our loved ones will never be broken. It doesn't matter that they are not on this plane, we have to keep fighting working not only for us, but also because it is what they wanted to see us. Enjoy, and smile true life is to love and let go maybe another time we will meet all our loved ones on another plane.