Kindness Is A Seed, Not Just An Act

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Kindness Is A Seed, Not Just An Act

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One of the beautiful things, I learned from my mom while growing up was giving a helping hand to those in need. It amazes me how she takes from the little she has to share with those who seem to be in more critical situations than hers. Of a truth sometimes, I feel like telling her "Mom it's okay, this is more than enough, if you give out all that, what shall we eat?" Hehe but that's the devil speaking those words into my little head.

We don't need to be rich or have surplus before we support others, forgive me, but sometimes, I see genuine generosity as when you give out of the very little you have. There is this popular saying, "There's love in sharing" A lot of us crack jokes with it. Do you realize that truly, when you share with others, when you give another person a listening ear, when you give those clothes you don't use out to someone in need when you defend someone who stands defenseless, you feel a kind of peace and sense of fulfillment?

We don't exist for ourselves alone. We live so that others can live through our lives. unfortunately many are only after their stomachs, they ask questions like," What do I gain if I help him or her?" "what will be my percentage if I sign the paper for you?" alright don't sign them and see if they will die.

Come on, life isn't just about you. We don't just exist for ourselves and our families alone. Each of us was sent into time to fulfill a purpose, to bring light into the world, to heal the brokenhearted, to give peace and relief to those in trouble, to lift burdens from others, and to put smiles on the faces of others.

But this this has to start from home before it can go outside. some of us don't have time for our families, your kids and spouse might be going through a hard time but we dont know because we dont have time to listen to them.

Some neglect people that are close to them and travel to far places to show kindness. Your neighbor hasn't eaten for days and you know it yet you've not done anything about it but you take food to others far away.

One thing a lot of us don't know is that kindness is a seed, and we will all reap from it, whether you sow well or not, the result will definitely catch up with you. That seed doesn't die, it may take long but it will definitely yield again.

I watched a movie last night, a young man got the job of a housekeep, and the owner of the house was bereaved of his wife and daughter on the same day. The situation took light away from the happy man making him lose hope in virtually everything in life.

When the young housekeeper came, he showed the owners of the house so much kindness, using his personal money to get some things in the house even when he knew the man was a multi-millionaire. He crossed boundaries just to ensure that everything was in place and the owner of the house found a reason to live again.

You may think that it's about the money, but no, the guy was doing it with a sincere heart. No house boy has business with how you feel emotionally, In case you think it was about the money.

The young man did his best and helped his boss forget his past and move on with life. That's kindness there, it comes in where every other thing fails, it's the only way out when all hope is lost, kindness goes the length no one would go. It is priceless. You might not know, but that person you are ignoring or refusing to help might be his last hope in life. I just hope you don't feel bad when you hear that he or she commits suicide.

Later on in life, the housekeeper fell sick and was in need of lungs in a couple of weeks if not he would die. The boss did all he could, sought everywhere he could to get lungs from someone who just passed on, but couldn't get any. Considering all that the young man has done for him. He abducted him as his child while on the sick bed, willed all his wealth to the young man then gave his two lungs to him. The name of the movie is breath of life.

You see the reward of kindness right? Imagine what would have happened if the housekeeper didn't show the house owner kindness when he was in dire need. But don't get me wrong, I am not saying we should show kindness with the mindset that it will return to us. If that's what you are thinking, you are wrong. Genuine kindness is shown without any reason attached.

Another thing I would say about kindness as I round up, is it is not selective, it does not criticize, it shows no difference and it is done out of love. If you have the opportunity to help someone give them a hand regardless of who they are, whether rich or poor that is none of your business.

Some people are kind only to the rich and some are kind only to the poor and the less privileged both are wrong, anyone can be in a situation where they need assistance. Calamity doesn't check people's conditions before it hits them.

Don't say this one already has, so I won't help, no! That's bad, except it's in a situation where what you have to share isn't going to go around else be generous to everyone. Be there in the Little way you can, whether in words, in money, in giving of food, in giving of clothes, in whatever you can afford, just be kind.

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It sounds like your mother was an amazing lady that taught you some wonderful things. Kindness truly is a seed sewn and will go on to become a tree that bears fruit. I used to wonder about peoples motives for doing acts of kindness, especially when some people are selective about who they "choose" to be kind to, and what thier motives for giving is.

Some people do things for others in order to recieve some form of recognition, that is not giving, that is not kindness. You mention a good point, people sometimes travel thousands of miles to do kind acts, and indeed many times for the right reasons, but not always.

We want to change the world, but we forget about the disabled person that lives at the end of the street. Also you mentioned suicide, unfortunetly there was a story that of the saddest suicide notes left on the Brooklyn Bridge. One note read, if just one person accnoledges me or says hello, I won't go through with it.

When we hold the door open for someone, or we pay a small compliment, that may be the kindest interaction the other person has experienced in a long time. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts in this post.

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She really is, I feel so lucky to have her. Giving is supposed to be a lifestyle to all of us.

I feel so bad about that suicide note, but it's a lesson for us all. We need to learn how to check up on people. Its not always about our money. Sometimes all that people need is out attention and kind words.

A lot is happening, most of us care so little about others, we by pass people we know need our help and it's not a good thing. I pray that by the end of this collaboration, all of us will cultivate the habit of kindness.

Thanks so much for reading. So sorry for replying late

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Never apologize for nothing something right away my friend! You are absolutely okay my friend. I think many people are stressed and trying to keep pace with what we are fed a message of things to do by companies. Wear these shoes, use this aftershave or perfume, drive that certain car and do the next thing, and then you will be happy.

We are told monetize, monetize, monetize, work more, spend more and consume. It is no wonder it causes stress. It’s chasing after the proverbial carrot on the stick and happiness is not found in those things.we are so busy on the treadmill, chasing things, that we can lose sight of what matters most.

You are a good person, I appreciate the reply, and hope like you, that people will look for opportunities to show kindness and slow down for a moment.

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beautiful way in which you describe your mother's kindness and teaching, solidarity and sincerity of heart. Life is in charge of returning the fruit of what was sown, kindness and solidarity with those who need it most without expecting to receive payment in return, continue sharing kindness.😘
#dreemerforlife

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Thank you so much dreemer, am so glad to have you here..

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I am happy to be part of this team of Dreamers.

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We are glad to have you mate❣️❣️❤️🥰

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We don't exist for ourselves alone. We live so that others can live through our lives.

This is absolutely true, and until we begin to understand it, the world will continue being the way it is. Nice read @emreal
#dreemerforlife

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You got my point ma, until we begin to live so that others can live through us, things may never change..

Thanks for reading 🥰

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We are indeed blessed when we have parents like your mother. Generally life is always tending to get into our reptile mind, be worried and fearful, focus on surivival. Our parents are the first people who we mimic and when they are kind we end up having that kind seed in ourselves, however hard life might try to put us off track. Loved what you have written and reminded me of elders in my family. Thank you for sparking those memories in me.

Cheers from a fellow #dreemerforlife.

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The pleasure is all my sir. It's a huge blessing to grow in the hands of good parents..

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