Some Things Are Difficult And We Don't Know How To Solve Them.

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I have a friend, a good friend of mine, whom I respected a lot. I once went to his house and saw him with his girlfriend. I went out so as not to be distracted. Two days later, I expected him to call me, but he didn't. I was worried about what was stopping him. I started wondering if his girlfriend was still with him. I seriously considered it, but I didn't want to hurt him. I called him thinking he would answer, but he didn't. I didn't want to stress anyone out, because many people face a lot in life. A week later, I went to his house to see what was going on. When I got there, I saw him sitting at home. I said hi to everyone and walked over to him, but he wasn't being friendly. Actually wasn't, but I wasn't worried at all because I never expected it, thinking he was in a bad mood. I told him I had called, but he didn't answer or call me back. He looked at me without saying anything, but I insisted that I should answer my question, but he didn't. So I traveled out of state and called him to inform him about my trip, which was very urgent, but he rejected my call. I called him three times, but he didn't answer. After a month, we didn't communicate, and my girlfriend kept asking me about him because my girlfriend stayed in another state and wasn't with us. I told her that he's okay because I didn't want to tell her anything.

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I didn't know what to do, and it occurred to me to call his girlfriend. Maybe she would help me. I called her, and she rejected my calls three times, but I thought maybe she was busy at that time. Later that night, I called again, and she answered the phone and warned me not to call her again. I was shocked because I never expected to hear that from her. But the problem is, I don't know what I've done to them to make them treat me the way they are. I almost lost my job because I was thinking about it day and night. One day, I was chatting with my coworkers. His mother called me; according to her, she just wanted to check on me, and I thanked her. She asked if my friend and I communicated, and I said yes because I didn't want to be the one who had to explain everything. Saturday morning, I woke up after my morning devotions and decided to check my phone. I saw three missed calls from my girlfriend, so I called right away. My girlfriend answered, and I told her that I missed her call, but I had overslept because I was stressed. My girlfriend said no problem, but something had made her call early morning, and I asked what the problem was. She asked me what had happened between my friend and me, and I didn't say anything. She asked again when the last time I communicated with him was, and I told her he wasn't answering my calls and I didn't know why. She said my friend had called her and said a lot of mean things about me, and she was really upset about what she heard. I don't know what she heard, but I don't have a problem with him. She said it's not about me, it's about her, and she burst into tears and hung up. I called her right away, but she didn't answer. I'm totally confused. Guys, there are serious things going on in this life behind our back, especially in our relationship and family, but stay focused because I don't know what to do now. Thank you for your time, and God bless you all.