Do your best and leave the rest

Do your best and leave the rest

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I had plenty of experiences when it comes to people being an ingrate to me, but there is a particular one that made me decide in my mind that regardless of what happens to someone in need of help from me, I will never go extra miles for the person because I discover that you can only do your best and leave the rest, as it is concerning, humans are the hardest thing to understand on earth, so it is good to just do what you feel you can do and not regret later even when they fail you, but it has now become something normal in society. I learned it the hard way and decided to never let it happen again. So, I have made it my policy to just do what I can without expecting anything in return. I know that it’s better to not expect anything from anyone and just do what I can. The same principle applies to relationships as well. If I give my best without expecting anything from the other person, it feels much more rewarding. That way, I can appreciate the presence of the people I love without any sort of expectation. This has helped me to enjoy the time I spend with them, without the burden of expectations. I also like the fact that it gives me a sense of freedom and control, as I am not dependent on anyone else for my happiness. It has been a great learning experience, and I'm grateful for it.

Nowadays, people easily forget the good thing you have done for them .well, it is not their fault, but it is the irony of life itself. So, I have learned to accept that and be strong. I try to focus on the present and make the most of every moment I have with them. I embrace all the love and joy that comes with it, and cherish it as long as I can. Furthermore, I count my blessings and remind myself how lucky I am to even have them in my life. Likewise, I try to be a good friend and show them appreciation for all that they do for me. Not only that, but I strive to make the most of our time together and make beautiful memories to last a lifetime.

I had a very close friend which I helped when he had nowhere to go, he pleaded that he would love to stay with me for sometime of which I allowed him to stay with me despite me being married with two kids, Everyone who knows about this told me it is not healthy to allow a grownup man to stay with my family but because of the closeness that is between us, I did not listen to them, I kept on telling them no me knows tomorrow .here is the truth about life sometimes listen to what people around you has to say because it might be of help, to cut the long story short, he started stating with me, I provided him with access to my business , so he can also be having some can't with him but this is my friend abused all the opportunities give to him, he even went extra miles to destroy my reputation in the business, but God saved me, that my friend really messed up, and he is really an ungrateful person , since I had this experience, I have been very hard to render such help.
I just have to let him go unpleasantly, and I immediately cut off my relationship with him.

Thank you for reading my post.
This is my response to the Hive learners prompt.

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