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Warmest greetings to hivers and my friends in this beautiful community. Hope we are all enjoying good health 🥰. Happy to be with you all again through this amazing topic tagged “Divorce”.

Divorce is a crucial issue and a moment that brings devastating memories in the lives of both the parents called the couple and the children 👧 known as their wards. When a relationship that was started on a good note, and with so much happiness brought offspring after many years, and suddenly things started turning sour, both parents and children ends up suffering.

Divorce is never ever seen as a child’s play because it involves a whole lots of emotions which most times affects the women mostly, especially if the children are still at their tender age. And getting a divorce or initiating one is not some movements that just happens overnight, in a day or weeks and even not months. Its seen as a time when a relationship reaches at a breaking point which most times can take many years to happen. And by this stage of the relationship or marriage, the couples has seen that things has really failing apart and everything is wrong.

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Divorce as I see it is always a painful 😓 proceedings for all the family members and at this rate I can say it affects both the couples and children. But in most cases, if the children are still little, it does leaves lots of trauma in them which is why most women endures through their marriages even if things are already failing apart just to see their children grow and get to that stage in life when they will know and see reasons for themselves.

In most cases, some divorce can happen even when the children are still tender in age which is why the Court has to be involved to help settle things amicably, where the woman 👩🏻 might have custody of the children as a mother and the man taking them towards the weekends to make the relationship between children and father still a bond. This arrangement has helped so many families resolved the issues of those things that brings trauma on the children 👦

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Looking at how the rate of divorce has increased in the recent times, its very obvious that many people who go into marriage has forgotten the reason why man and woman comes together to be joined as one entity. Couples these days usually forgets in a hurry why marriage is an institution that needs both persons to be committed to it. This era has created many fast paced relationships where those involved do not consider the patience for one another nor that genuine love ❤️ that holds lots of bond for two, and which can help resist breaking up especially when children are already involved. Marriages are one that needs patience, because many homes are going through lots of difficulties either through how bad the economy has become or how infidelity are the devil 👿 in many homes which is worst root to many divorces. I can tell you that many women are trying so hard to sustain their marriages at this point of bad economy.

In conclusion, if only we can continue to see marriage as a union of two different people who God has joined together for a purpose, we will most times avoid those things that brings the thoughts 💭 of separation instead do all we could to sustain this institution that gives us opportunities to bring other humans to life. Although it’s sometimes very difficult for the couples involved to reconcile due to how after many years of issues and circumstances that they can not handle again especially of those that involves deep emotions or those that might lead to death 💀

This is my response to the #hivelearners featured content for week 165, edition 01, tagged “DIVORCE”.

Thanks for reading friends ❤️❤️

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