I Used Scissors To Cut Off The Friendship.

Cutting people off can be funny at times because people have different reasons for cutting others off and when I hear some of these reasons, they sound very funny to me. I always find it very hard to cut people off because I mostly feel attached to people but I’m an adult and I’ve been through a lot so cutting people off should not be new to me even though it may be very difficult for me.
In my entire life, I can count how many times I have cut people off but a lot of people have cut me off too, lol.
I’m not perfect so if anyone feels I’m not the best for them, cut me off and it will reduce my headache too.

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I cut a friend of mine off recently. Cutting her off does not mean that we ain’t cool but I’ve limited the things I do with her and the things I tell her.

Why I cut a friend off

I have a group of friends and we’ve always done our things together right from my University days. I found out that myself and one of us have almost the same attitude. It’s surely going to be easier to roll with such person so we started getting close.
Luckily, our hostels were opposite each other so we visit each other.
Also, she’s very sensible and I love the kind of vibes she gives to me.
She’s not a wasted fellow or someone who thinks unreasonably. She’s neat, good cook and also very brilliant when we were in school.
If I have any problem, I can sharply run to her and if she has the capacity to solve the problem, she will do so.

You know you can never tell so much about someone until you move closer to them. I then noticed something about her. If we’re friends, I feel you should be able to confide in me but it looks like she does not trust me. I tell her almost everything about my life but she dares not say anything to me. It may look like I’m trying to monitor her life but that’s not the case. If we’re close, you should trust me.
I observed her more and I got to know that she’s like that. No matter how happy all of us are in a gathering and sharing what’s up with our lives, she dares not say a word. If she wears a dress and you compliment it then ask her how much she bought it so you can buy it. Guess what? My friend is never going to mention how much she bought the dress.

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A few months back, she called my friends and I that she’s getting married in seven days. I got very angry because why will she tell us about her wedding when it’s seven days close? It’s crazy.
It looked like she didn’t want us to come. I already planned not to go for the wedding and some of my friends too. Only a friend of mine went and she made us realize that the wedding ceremony was a big one and they must have been planning for months.
So why didn’t she tell us then? Even if she doesn’t want us to know anything about her, she should at least tell us a few weeks before so that we will get prepared.
I felt bad and made up my mind not to even have anything to do with her anymore.

If there is love in friendship, you should be able to share a few things. You should invite us to parties and a lot more. Friendship is not just about seeing each other and laughing all the time. That’s childish.
This lady is not that kind of friend. I miss her so much but I’m sure we’re never getting close anymore.