Love is no longer what it used to be.

Love is no longer what it used to be.

Hello, everyone.

I welcome you to my blog. The dating and marriage pool is no longer what it used to be; those days before people come to say they love you or have a feeling for you, they must have checked themselves and meant what they told you, but these days all those things are just mere words coming from someone that wants to use and gain what they want. The number of marriages that have crashed in the last few years makes it scary to even think about marriage, and many men had to lose half or more than half of their properties as a result of divorce or separation.

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Marriage and relationship pools those days were for love and love only, but these days it has become transactional, and no one wants to be with you if you have nothing to offer, and if staying with you brings them no gain, then there is no need to stay with you. The pressure this transactional love pool has put on people, especially men, is disheartening; many people have been made to believe that those who are broke don't deserve any love as they cannot afford it, and we are slowly accepting this and making it look like a normal.

Relationships are supposed to be built on love and not on what one has to offer or what one has. In our world today, we slowly let a lot of things become normal and did not try to fight it, and this has also become a normal. Married people are supposed to be partners and not one sponsoring the life of the other person; it is the duty of the man to provide, but that does not mean the woman should not support in any way that she can. I feel marriage or relationships are a partnership and not in any way a sponsorship; there are many ladies out there who have a very disgusting mentality.

There are ladies with the mentality of "my money is my money, but my husband's or boyfriend's money is our money." When you have anything to do with this category of ladies, before you know it, they are filing for a divorce so they can really make that wealth and money of yours theirs too. Ladies of this generation see marriages and relationships as employments and as escape routes from poverty, and this is exactly why I support the signing of a prenuptial agreement before getting into marriage with ladies of this generation.

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Enforcing or ensuring that a prenuptial agreement is signed is saving yourself from going broke again. Many men have gone from hero to zero, and many women have gone from zero to hero. So yes, let's get that prenuptial agreement signed, as love is no longer enough and almost does not exist anymore. These days, not everyone gets into marriage with you because they love you; they probably have seen getting into a relationship or marriage with you as a stepping stone, and then they decide to cease it. The number of marriages that have crashed is proof that many people, especially women, see marriages as an escape route and an opportunity not to be messed with, so in order to avoid losing properties you must have worked all your life for, it's better to sign a prenuptial and save yourself the stress and pain just in case.