Changing Mindsets, Changing Futures

There are tremendous changes in the educational system of my country nowadays. Gone are the days when females are limited to getting educated. Gone are the days when boys were the main focus; boys were trained to occupy important positions in our society, and they were given kingship respect like mini gods, while females were kept at home, limiting their potential to kitchen duties and home management.

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In those days, there was a cultural belief affecting the education mentality of our people. If a female is sent to school, they consider it a wasted investment. Why? Because they believe that women's education ends in the kitchen. Some of our fathers then also believe that training a girl child in school means training the person for the future husband, and how does it help them?


It is unfortunate that females suffered a lack of education back then; they suffered illiteracy due to one belief, and today some of our aged mothers are still suffering the negative effects of not being educated. They can't read or write; you will send an alert for my grandma, and she can't read the message on her phone until you call her to tell her of the alert . My uncle married from another tribe, and it's been a hassle for my grandma to communicate with her daughter-in-law, and in many other situations, they are still suffering to date for not going to school back then.

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My mum's dad had the same mentality and stopped my mum from going to school, but then she married very early at age 12 back then, and her husband, my own dad, sent her to school until she finished her primary level...today she is working in a local government with the primary school certificate.


Now, the educational system of our country has changed; everyone can reach their potential, whether you are a boy or girl, as long as you can afford the cost. Both male and female now occupy sensitive positions in the country due to how much they are educated. In banks, women are regional managers; in top companies, women are MDs—no limit as long as you are a quality resource person. I am loving this change. If money is not an object, nothing can limit me from going far education-wise and achieving my dreams.


These days, females are even more in population in schools; that's to tell you that we are evolving for good, although there are still some hawking, learning skills, not because they don't want to go to school but because their parents lack resources. Many go into trading; others learn handwork just to make ends meet, but overall, we have left that era where female education is a problem.

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Females no longer end up in the kitchen as we were being regarded in the past. We now live our dreams beyond the kitchen; we pursue our education to the farthest we can go and even travel abroad for more education and a better living. It's a win-win.

This post is in response to the #HiveLearners prompt on the topic titled, Getting Educated.

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That's just it, as long as you can afford the cost, education is there for everyone.
Gone are the days where women are meant for only the kitchen and child bearing. 😅

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Hahaha ..they treated my gender badly back then oo

Glad I was not born then, because warrisdis that ..lol

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Yes ooo either male or female education is important in their lives and besides educated women today do greater things in their families and in the society and today that mentality is totally gone people now struggle to train both male or female

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Yea...it's a long gone mentality and we now enjoy education to the fullest

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Glad we didn't experience those years, I feel for many of them who where zealous to go to school but no way for them

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Males were just the points of focus back in the day, but in these recent days, the reverse is the case. it is truly working perfectly, combining the two genders in education.

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I love this change, thank God for growth and progress, things have changed for the better for the girl child. I narrowly escaped the era of not sending girls to school.😊

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Ahhh....my own funshe 🤭🤭😃😃
Àbeg oo...thank God u escaped 😍

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You're right, the world is changing and with working in the kitchen women are also working in many fields and i also noticed the more female students in schools

Cheers !LADY 😉

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If course...no.more limitation

We are exploring our world in fullest

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Yes and we are lucky maybe

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females are even more in population in schools;

!LOLZ. Ladies have proved to be more intelligent and hardworking as compared to males. Hehe. That creates a problem. Now ladies have to struggle hard to find a partner of their calibre 😉

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Hahahaha 😃😃
Overtaking is allowed but somehow, it's affecting some ladies during marriage

Life is not balance 😃

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I checked the number of bank CEOs in Nigeria and I was impressed to see 11 females occupying that position. We have 21 commercial banks in Nigeria so indeed we are making progress ✊✊🏿

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It's a good thing to be in the era where females are proving their education doesn't end up in the kitchen

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I am equally happy to be part of this era...breaking records lol

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Because they believe that women's education ends in the kitchen.

I did hear this statement a lot back as a kid, mentioned in some books and stories. Honestly, it stung everytime I heard or read it and just went on to show how poor the mentality of our forefathers were.
But I'm more than glad the reverse is now the case. Females are sent to school, to learn how to read, write and polish their lives. And by so doing, give back to the society. It's a win win indeed.

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Gone are those days ..we will continue to make difference in our world today

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Indeed the world have really change now ever gender have equal right when it comes to education

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Omo... No time again. Everyone knows better than to try to keep their kids from school. Education is important for everyone, not just for a particular gender.

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That's the way to go, we can all achieve our potentials without restrictions

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It's really great that our fathers now understand why a female child deserves to be educated.
My mom was also trained by my dad due to the fact that her father wasn't will to train his female kids
But now ladies are stepping up and doing well educationally.

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Ur mum was lucky too like mine

Good enough , that era has passed

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This mentality also stopped my mom from going to school, which still pains her till now. To the extent that when Grandpa was alive, my mom would go and greet him, then pour out her anger to him about three times before he eventually apologized. Since then, my grandpa never joked with education, to the point that he was the one who made sure I got admission in 2021.

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Chai..I can understand that anger but the deed has been done

We can make a big change now!

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The world has changed a lot and females can do most of the jobs that men can do these days

Your mum got married very young 12 Wow 😮 my daughter is 11 🙏🏾

I really enjoyed this post I hope you enjoy your day ahead ✌🏾👊🏾🤗

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