With time I start to make good decisions in life
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Sometimes we've to choose between thing's and we've to take a decision which is sometimes hard to choose and sometimes it's easy to make a decision. But we've to choose it in anyway.
Today we've to write on decision making process in the weekly topic of hive learner contest.
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My decision making process!!!!
I was not good at making a decision in past and I made a lot of mistakes due to my own choices. But gradually I started to learn about things that how I should deal with it. I'm not saying here that I commit some big mistakes but my decision on little things effects my life in hard way.
Just like I've to go somewhere and I'm confused that should i go there or not and mang other small decisions in life which I took and then I feel regret about it. Byt now I learn to take a better decision for myself at least as obviously now we're growing enough and we learn to live a life.
A wrong decision of my life!!!
When I was in a university, I've to go to at annual party which is just like an annual dinner with little celebration. I took part in speech which was okay but as I've to go to stage in front of 500 people so i was confused about dressing choice and I totally wear what I want or what I like.
I choose a dress which was pretty like a party dress but I wasn't comfortable in that dress but still I choose to wear it and went to party. And because of that dress I can't enjoy my party because i wasn't comfortable in that.
What I learned from that experience!!!!
After that I start to choose a dress which is comfortable to me , doesn't matter dress is pretty or not but I choose to wear comfortable dress because if I'm not comfortable then I can't enjoy the day or whenever I go.
In past, I just choose without thinking about its pro's and cons but now think hundred times about the results and then make a choice between thing's. If I see any harms in choose a thing then I don't choose it and choose the things which is beneficial for me at least in that time.
Final thought's!!!!
My Mom told me to think about the pros and cons of things before make a choice between them especially when she noticed that I don't think and just choose randomly then she advised me to think about it carefully. As obviously our moms are our best teacher in the world. They learned us all the things in life but mostly we learned from our own experience too especially when we've to suffer from bad experience.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest in #hl-exclusive for the topic #hl-w161e3
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Learning from past mistakes is a big part of growth, and it's amazing how simple habits like choosing comfortable clothes can make all the difference...
Great take on decision making process!
#DecisionMaking #PersonalGrowth 😊
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Your mum is very correct; it is very important to think about the positive and negative aspects of things before making a decision. That is the best advice everyone needs to get through this thing called "decision".
When making decisions, thinking about the pros and cons are very important. It’s necessary we weigh both to see their impacts and effects in our lives.