Surrogacy

Guidelines should be added for clear understanding.

Surrogacy is a complex and sensitive topic that can be difficult for some couples to fully comprehend. While it can be a blessing for those struggling with infertility, it can also lead to chaos and misunderstanding, if the agreement happens not to be sealed properly.

The joy of every marriage is always complete when there is the cry of a baby in the house. That is when the title of motherhood sets in you can't be a mother when there is no child to make that title legal.

As much as I have supported the use of these methods I also know it has its disadvantages which sometimes is difficult to solve.

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I came across a case that highlights the complexities of surrogacy. A surrogate mother agreed to carry a child for a couple and gave birth according to their agreement with some nice and attractive Incentives and money. After the birth, she went on to live her life leaving with the pack of goodies and money given to her, eventually she entered into a relationship that led to marriage.

However, her new marriage was not without challenges. She discovered that she was unable to bear children due to complications in her womb. Despite numerous consultations and treatments, she was left with no eggs in her womb, making it impossible for her to conceive.

In a desperate bid to have a child, the surrogate mother returned to the couple she had helped years earlier and asked them to give her the child she had carried for them. She couldn't bear the thought of asking another woman to bear a child for her.

However, the couple was taken aback by her request, and a complex dispute arose. The situation raised questions about the rights and responsibilities of surrogate mother,
And who is to take care of the child as the father happened to be the man whose wife couldn't bear a child.
How will such be treated even if she succeeded in taking the child will her husband be willing to take full responsibilities of the child he is fully aware is not his?

This case highlights the need for clear guidelines and regulations surrounding surrogacy. It also underscores the importance of careful consideration and counseling for all parties involved in surrogacy arrangements, the service of a legal adviser is as well needed here.

With all necessary guidelines clearly stated with a black ink on a white sheet, well written with both parties clarified on the consequences attached if anyone bridges the agreement.

To me I will say the concept of surrogate mother is a very nice idea and should be treated as such it will help build and grow so many houses it will also help eradicate any form of depression associated with childbirth. Oppression from people who happen to be mockers will be silenced.

It should be supported as much as the tradition doesn't support it that much but then consider people who will be unfortunate to be in a circumstance where they can't help it. It will go a long way.

And it will also foster a better relationship between inlaws most especially some parts of Africa where mother inlaws find that their joy is complete whenever Grandchildren are involved in the Marriage of their children. People from this part of the world can relate to what I am trying to point out here.