The effect of money in friendship/relationship

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Today I’m talking about money . Money is so important in this world that we live money also destroy friendships , relationships and even family because of how important money is although money shouldn’t be the foundation of a relationship the main reason for human interaction or relationship should be kindness , love and respect for one another. No matter how we all sugarcoat it that we don’t like money at the end of the day we all still like money and they should be limit of how much we like money we should consider other things before putting money first than our relationship with people .

As someone who’s trying to be very contented with whatever I have , I’ll rather do things I know I could handle than for me to overspend the money I don’t have. Since I was so young I have been able to save for things I want to get even though it will cost me not buying my favorite candies or biscuits I’m just used to saving for things I want to get and this behavior is still part of me till now .

I know as human it gets to a particular time we all go broke there’s always that moment for almost everyone which is normal for me I dislike lending money from people because when it’s time to pay back I’ll probably feel very reluctant to give them their money back luckily for me I have older siblings who always show up for me when I’m broke or at the verge of lending money . Money can be so hard to navigate around in a relationship . Sometimes we have friends or even family that feel so entitled about your money which is very sad some families or friends don’t even care about your personal need all they want is to always receive from you . Some family members and friends sometimes push people to the lifestyle they can’t afford which turns into debt.

Having people who are always asking is better than people who lend money and promise to return it without the intention of paying back I find that type of behavior very irritating that’s the easiest way to never show any type assistance to people who behave that way , when someone trust you enough to to lend you money the best thing to do is to keep to your promise in other for them to always help you or find you trust worthy . I find people who lie about things like that to be deceitful and very greedy I don’t like to do business with people that behave that way .

It’s also important to build a strong relationship that have same values and beliefs about things you like in other to bond more and to avoid money problems and it’s also important to be contented with whatever we have .