Czak and His Fire Truck

Hello everyone! How are you all? I hope you are all well and happy.

I've been making drafts lately but I don't seem like how the bloh went and ended up keeping them in draft.

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I don't buy toys often/most of the time. Does that make me a bad mother?

I hope not.

I have three kids and I could say I'm the bread winner of our family.therr are times that we had plenty, there are times that we had nothing and most of the time, we had enough.

I didn't make it a ritual to buy my kids the toys they wanted, I always tell them that our money was for something else; food, milk, monthly amortisation of the motorcycle, and more.

Instead of buying, I encouraged them to make one, be creative and use their imaginations. Maybe it a just me excuse, right?

But young kids don't fully know how to appreciate things and they almost always end up breaking them.

But we don't deprive them of the food they wanted, well not of the time but from time to time.

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When my kids were younger, they almost always have hand me down things, some gives them clothes and toys and they are happy.

Also, I always accept the fot the kids because it's a huge savings already.

Im greedy, I'm ambitious. I and my husband planned to, no we acquired lots so that one day, we will be able to build a boarding house and we will eventually stop from working and be out own boss.

That way we will be spending more time with our family an probably have a small business and I picture myself doing Hive and focus in it.
Honesty I'm working on other sites too. I'm trying to build on my accounts so that I could have extra money. That way, I will have savings because I literally don't have one in fiat.

But in time when I feel. Like i have extras,I buy my kids the things they wanted. My eldest daughter is in the third grade and she know how to look at things on the shops and she is telling me about it.

There was even a time when she took soem of our money without our permission just to buy something. Of course she was scolded but I also feel like it was my fault not giving wha they wanted.

So last payday, I allocated some amount to buy them toys. For the girls, I bought each one a water color and for Czak, I bought him a fire truck. Actually he was the one who chose it among the toys in the shop.

I made thr perfect decision. My kids now appreciate the things they have and I've never seen them so happy. Just like every child with a new toy, Czak ha d his firetruck with him in bed and he doesn't let go.

The girls on the other hand took a paper and started coloring and going art. Aelie is good at coloring while Laling still don't know much about the techniques on how not to smudge.

This will be all, I'll leave youa with my daughter's artwork.

Thank you for your time, see you around.