Am I being selfish if I feel this way? Who's right and who's wrong? This is so tiring.

Hello everyone, it's me again, Jenbaylon.
I'm a young mother who wants our family to be happy, but why is it like this? Is my husband doing the right thing to me? I know he's the one working for us and our child, but why does he still give money to his siblings even though he has a family now? I'm not a selfish person, I give them money when they ask, even if it means I'm the one giving it to them so we can at least help. But as time goes by, their requests are getting bigger. This is the real reason why I'm upset, I don't know if it's my husband or his siblings. But I feel sorry for my husband, even his vitamins, he won't buy them unless I insist. So I'm the one buying them for him.

At first, it was okay, we would give them money when we had some, but if we were just getting by, we wouldn't. But now, I don't know why my husband supports his siblings without telling me. It's not that I'm forbidding him from giving them money, it's just that he doesn't tell me the truth. I just want him to respect me as his wife and let me know what he's doing with the money. The worst part is, he even gives money for his brother's vices. First, it was for his birthday, he gave him money to buy drinks. When the money ran out, he asked for money to buy rice, then for gas for his motorcycle so he could go out. He gives them money for everything! It's like I'm the one who doesn't have a family, right? Don't I have a right to his money? What kind of wife am I if that's the case? My money should be used for the right things, and they have another sibling who has a good job in Manila, and they don't have children, why don't they ask him for money? Why ask the one with a family? Don't they feel sorry for their brother? Then when I tell my husband, he gets mad at me for interfering. 😭😭😭😭 Is this right? And now, he says he's paying for their electricity bill, 400 pesos! 😭😭😭😭