The spirit remains unbroken

Winning and losing is not only meant for sports but also it has greater influence in our life event too. Today, I accompanied one of my relative to the government office for the interview. The person is hardworking and deserve a government job. He was excited for the interview and me and an one of our other friend where praying for a positive outcome. The wait at the office really gets longer and with each passing minutes we were getting desperate. We were awaiting outside the building gate, as outsiders were not allowed. Only the candidates were allowed to go inside. Outside the atmosphere was very gloomy. Not because of the cloudy weather, but because of the other peoole who were desperately waiting for their known one who were attending the interviews. Nobody know the outcome, everyone was cluless of what happening inside. There was a very thin line that diffrentiate the win and loss even in the career field.

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The thin line between winning and losing is exciting because it creates a high-stakes environment where the outcome is uncertain and the potential for either elation or disappointment is significant. I noticed a faster heartbeat as the waits gets longer. When the outcome is uncertain, the body experiences physical changes like increased heart rate and heightened senses, similar to fear, but the interpretation of these sensations as excitement is what makes it thrilling. This phase can be dangerous too, as many people aufdered from strokes because of the excitement.

The possibility of either winning or losing creates an emotional rollercoaster, where the elation of victory is contrasted with the disappointment of defeat. This range of emotions adds to the excitement. The tension builds anticipation and intensifies the emotional experience, making even close contests thrilling. My friend was inside for the job after years of hardship and his dedication to get a government job. In my country, government jobs are getting very competitive but still people looking for it to get a secured life. Like me many people back in village was expecting a positive outcome to his interview.

In a generic viewpoint, winning can boost confidence and motivation, while losing can teach valuable lessons about resilience and problem-solving. Both outcomes contribute to personal growth, making the experience, even in defeat, meaningful. But here it is about building someone career. And we wanted him to win because we have seen his hardship. Being a friend, we always hope for his best.

There was a big ground, where we were waiting for my friend. Our eyes were glued to the gate, expecting him to come out with a smiling face. Everytime someone comes out, we expect him to be there. We do not wanted to make any calls, to avoid any distraction. We wanted to see his reaction, when we meet face to face. But after hours of waiting and desperate feeling, the outcome was very surprising. Neither Win nor Loss. He was asked to come again due to some.biometric issue. He unable to appeae for the interview and asked to come back again. This was completelly unexpected for us. The whole hours spend does give us aome thrilling experince and kept us on toes.

We were left to experience such situation again.

In good faith - Peace!!