A change for better #LOH-WK243

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It has being a while i participated in the weekly prompt, and i know that i have missed so much,but i'm glad that i'm able to put myself together and continue my fun by participating in this amazing contest for this week.

Some charaters we exhibit are not delibrate,because it did'nt start in a day,we might begin well,set rules and try to abide to them but out of hurts, depression,difficulties or pains that we could'nt handle properly tends to build some of these charaters in us.because there are certain things that happened in the journey of life and we are left with so many questions that in our heart,seeking for answers,yet the answers are not forth coming.but the only option left is either to change for good or bad and exhibit some charater or better still pray for strength and courage to stand firm,confront them and come out stronger and better.

In life,it's true that change is the only constant thing,that brings about growth,self-development,self-discipline e.t.c and a pathway to becoming a better version of ourselves.or the opposite,in all,I have come to learn,unlearn and relearn so many things,and i came to understand that there are certain height we can't attain,missed some opportunities and live in regret due to our characters,i also belief that our charater has a greater part to play in our success and achievement in life.
Life is full of challengies thus spuring up some charater trait,often time with the aim of protecting,defending or trying prove a point without knowing it might hurt others,thus after exhibiting these charaters we tend to become remorseful and displeased with ourselves hence seeking for a way out.

One of the charater trait i try to fight daily is anger and impatience,though i understand and recognize that anger is a normal emotion,and everyone experiences it at some point,though i would have used that to console myself that it's normal,but i have missed some opportunities and friends because of this,so i tend not to see it as normal any more because it always bring pains and regret,so that is why i fight it by bringing my emotions under subjection,aviod things that triggers it and try to read books on anger management.and i am glad that i have seen the improvement.

Mostly when a flash of anger,frustration or impatience flares up, I pray for forgiveness and try to gain the right perspective,and try to control myself,though it's not always as easy as said,but i'm happy that i always come out strong,and overcome it bringing back an angelic smile back on my face,i also pray for the spirit of patience because it is a virtue that brings joy,happiness and laughter at the end.

Thank you for reading to the end.

I really appreciate @ladiesofhive for this opportunity to share my thought.

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