Never settling again
If there is ever a second chance at rewriting a few things in this life, I know exactly what they would be. First it's going to be my relationship. I wished I never took the bare minimum as princess treatment. I wish I never stayed in situations that weren't clear. Hoping that one day my partner will change, doing everything to prove to someone who doesn't care that I am a better option, like he would tag it. Telling myself that patience is a virtue. If I go back, I will demand clarity early; I won't overlook some not harmful but very dangerous red flags. I will choose people who choose me openly, not halfway.
Another thing I am going to change is always allowing myself to be guilt-tripped or gaslighted . He made me believe I was the problem. I kept apologizing for things I didn't do. I kept questioning myself worthy. Low self-esteem almost crept in because he made me feel like nothing I did was ever right. I wish I trusted myself more or even listened to my voice that I was more than enough. If I get that chance again, I will rather walk away than allow anyone to manipulate me instead of enduring it.
Then there is a dream I let go out of fear and lack of funds, which is medicine. Becoming a doctor is something I held close to my heart, but money stood in the way, and I gave up quickly. I don't know that there are other paths or support or even options. I accepted my dream was too expensive for me. Until this day I do wonder what my life would have turned out as if I had pursued my dream to become a medical doctor.
If life were to give me a second chance, I would love differently, trust myself more, and pursue my dreams boldly. I can’t change the past, but I have learned from it. And maybe the real second chance is the person I am becoming now, someone wiser, stronger, and more intentional than before.
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So sorry you had to go through that.
Our choices of love and life is a decision we live with.
We can't easy change them we just keep going.
I learnt but thank God it wasn't the hard way
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Sometimes life is just funny, the lessons it brings is crazy. Nonetheless, you have learned from your mistakes, regretted your actions and determined to make progress...
Your experiences is sad, that guy trying to play the victim and in turn making you feel guilty is a weak man, he's not fit for you. The one for you is closer than you ever imagine.
Studying medicine is a beautiful dream. Money can be very silly. But don't give up on it, it can still be actualized.
Have a beautiful day ahead.😊🤗
Thank you but I did something else
Okay! Cool, as long as you're happy.
Yes
Have a beautiful day ahead
This is so honest and powerful. Growth like this doesn’t come easy, and I love how you’re choosing yourself now. Truly, the real second chance is becoming a better, wiser version of who we were. I’m proud of your strength and reflection.
Thank you dear
The important thing is that you've learned along the way, and that will help you make better decisions. Sending you a hug of light!
Thank you dear
There's always medical roles for special nurses that function in place of Doctors. In my province we have a serious doctor shortage. College Selected nurses are filling in the role like a physician as long as it was within their scope of practice and follow through by a doctor. It's something temporary as so many people have no general practitioner or family doctor. I've been practicing nursing care for over 25 years, and now retired.
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Wow really, where are you from
I live on the west coast of Canada.
The lack of General Practitioners was a result of a bad government policy created by the New Democratic Party some decades ago. My Provincial governments have since lost common sense since.
Okay. Our leaders can put up policy's that harm us at times