What’s My Marriage Going To Look Like?
For those who don’t know, marriage is one of my biggest dreams. I’ve always wanted to have a partner. I mean, waking up by someone’s side everyday of your life during the good and bad moments.
I know marriage isn’t an achievement just as so many people say but if I’m opportune to have one, I’ll hold on to it so dearly.
The fact that I’m hungry for marriage doesn’t mean that I’d settle for less or someone I can’t be proud of. I hope I definitely end up with someone whom I can show to the world and with that, I’ll have to talk about physical attraction.
When it comes to physical attraction, I’m a very big fan of it and I always date handsome men. I love men who are facially handsome that every girl would always want to gaze at.
I love it when my man is dark, a bit tall, a bit chubby and handsome. When it comes to my spec, here is my spec.
I also want a clean man. I’m heavy on my hygiene and it’s not going to be nice to settle for a man who doesn’t take his personal hygiene life seriously. If I can be serious with my hygiene, I’d want my man to do so too.
Perfumes? I so much love perfumes. I was inside a Napep today and I was lucky to sit beside a guy who’s wearing a lovely perfume.
At some point, I felt like giving him a hug but that’s not possible so I controlled my feeling even though I really want to.
I want a romantic man just like my father. Romantic in this scene is me wanting a man who understands my mood so much and knows how to make me calm whenever I’m angry.
The fact that I want a romantic man doesn’t mean I want him to rub my head whenever I mess up. I want his disciplined but above all, has to be romantic.
Lastly, I want a man I can pray with. I usually save the best for the last just as I did right here. A marriage is never going to work without prayer or the intervention of God so I want that person whom I can pray with during good times and bad times.
Marriage can never be perfect no matter how compatible you are with your partner but talking about my marriage standards, here they are and I’m heavy on all of these listed here.
For every person there is a soulmate man or wife , the grass is always greener on the other side , no matter how many demands or wishes you have as long as the other one respects you and loves you for who you are you can't really go wrong .
You’re very right
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Cleanliness is key dear and can never be over emphasised. It's something I don't take for granted but my fear is that many people are full of pretendance. you will see them dress clean when going out but if you get to their rooms is something. And my prayers is never to fall into the hands of such pretendance.
Thanks for sharing this insightful piece dear
A man just has to be clean
I can’t even date dirty guys…
It's good you rounded it with a prayerful partner, I hope you marry your complete bone
Amen ooh
If you’re not married, I wish you the same prayer
This is so beautifully heartfelt. I love how you know exactly what you want and aren't afraid to say it. It's refreshing to see someone who values both the romantic and spiritual sides of marriage equally.
Your standards are valid and so well thought out - attraction, cleanliness, discipline, romance, and prayer really do make a strong foundation.
I truly hope you find that person who matches your energy and share your dreams - you deserve nothing less.
Amen
As long as I’m not asking for too much, I’ll surely get it
Heavy on being clean.
A man that smells good is tick's all the boxes.
Nice write up
I’m very heavy on it as well
I don’t joke with cleanliness
I hate uncleanliness so much that I would immediately scram if I as much as notice it in my partner. Yes I love clean people too.
Everyone will definitely love a clean person as such person will be next to God😌😌
I love the way you know what you want, that's nice. I love my man handsome, hardworking, funny and adventurous.
Nah true ohhh
He has to be funny😅