My Parry Systemđ
I could be your lady-hype, and I bet, youâd enjoy every bit of my show.
If youâre not careful, you could misjudge me as being two-faced. This is something that keeps happening and itâs like I prove them all right the instant I switch from my all smilingly calm nature to an aggressive extroverted lady and the next words I would hear is âI never knew you were like this?
Since I became so bored and tired of statements like that, I don't even bother with a reply because I believe the message has already been passed across. That aside. For starters, to sum up, I don't have an introverted personality even though I mind my business almost at every given point, and the best way to know that is the moment I choose to let loose and attend a party.
My personality could be quite contradicting, especially in aspects like these, where am the last person youâd call over for a party. Oh, I skipped the part of the non-friends zone, having only my man as my best friend and this is funny because that makes it so that all my exesâ were once my best friends and now left with noneđȘ
So even if there were to be a party, only my man holds the highest probability of having me in your party.
However, I don't have a man and not diverting any further from the actual lane of my hyped self whenever I get in the mood.
And so this drives me back to a bridal shower I was once part of about three years ago. I remembered sharing the exact story before too, where the bride happens to be a lady who is usually on her space, you know and was surprised the day she called me to join her bride's team which I rarely do.
I however agreed and on the day of the shower night, the other trains were all new faces having just the bride as the only familiar face in the room.
For a bridal shower night, that was supposed to be fun fun fun, almost was as calm as a cemetery, I promise I am not exaggerating here. And God was so good, I was already in my hyped up spirit and immediately after we changed to get a group photo, luckily I was the one with the wine and God bless the photographer, I suppose he felt the dullness too but there was nothing too much he could do aside making a few jokes here and there, change the music in the background all to lite up everyone like I predicted the exact timing and almost together we successfully changed the atmosphere at the exact timing of the music tuned alongside the âburst of champagneâ.
Yes, I opened the wine.
If you donât believe me, bring your bottle of wine and let me show you how over-capable I could becomeđ
Like the other girls needed that push, it was a turn-on event entirely when our calm bride began the moves.
You have me there screaming âGo Janie, Go Go! Go, Janie!!!
I love it and I miss the memories that came with it. That was the last bridal train I joined until now. Hopefully waiting for any of my close girlfriends to wed, so we can recreate more of these memoriesđâ€ïž
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It's really funny how she invited strangers, it would definitely affect the bonding but you did a great job bringing the setting back to life.
I want to believe everyone of us has the extroverted and introverted sides but one is dominant while the other is recessive. The one that play out is most times dependent on where we are, what we are doing and people around us.
I am very calm and at times to calm to be true until you see me play so rough with kids or my friends.
Having strangers at shower night must have been so weird at first, everyone trying to stay their lane and not over do because they know no one except the bride. Maybe nothing really fun would have happened if you didn't pop the wine and hype that way.