What hurts more than heart break?
Hello guys, today I'll be talking about the feelings of watching Someone you love, fall in love with the wrong person.
Yes we all talk about heartbreak, that it's hurt
Have you ever wondered the pains of seeing someone you care about in the arms of a wrong person.
Sometimes you feel their partners doesn't match their energy and you try to make him or her see reasons but if feels they are still carried away by the butterflies in their belly.
To me, it hurt more than heart break, it's a pains that takes time for you to realise it's not in your power to change a lover girl or boy to make them see reasons why you're saying the other partner doesn't deserve them.
It's feels draining seeing your love one's make choices that will endanger their life in the future.
This is more painful especially when you notice a red flag and they are trying to ignore it , something that will hurt them in the future.
I remember one time my bestie was in a relationship with a guy. I noticed so many red flags from the guy, but my bestie was acting blind pretending everything is okay.
I tried talking to her, that I know sometimes love actually has a way of making us not to see somethings.
Each time I bring up the conversation, she'll get pissed and I'll feel very bad.
It got to a point where our conversation decreasing because she feels I was trying to stop her from feeling the butterflies in her belly
She told me I'm not in any relationship and I don't know how it feels.
It continued that I had to reduce our closeness because of my mental health.
But I'm happy that at the end she saw what the guy was up to and then it was already too late because she wasted a whole two years doing nothing but trying become someone's heat beat but no, rather she was beaten.
In conclusion, I'm not saying heart break doe's not hurt but they're things that hurt more than it.
This is me thinking out loud, I will love to hear your own perspective about this topic
Thanks I'll be at the comments sect to respond to every query.
It's often said “ you can't advice someone inlove” and this case is no different.
Thankfully the relationship ended. However, there's absolutely no point in my opinion fuming over a matter that isn't yours because in most cases the people involved only knows what's they're doing.
Yh
I know there's no point of worrying over what is not in your power to change
But sometimes the feelings comes when you truly love the person involved
You just found yourself unconsciously worrying.