Día de afeitar a mi hijo./Day of shaving my son. / Spa/Eng.
El barbero me dijo que lo llevara una vez al mes, no está fácil.
Saludos comunidad #motherhood.
Mi hijo dejándose afeitar.
Desde la mañana hice el pago al señor que lo afeita, pero nunca estoy segura, si se va a afeitar ese día o no.
Hay varias variables que influyen en eso: una es la lluvia, o que se haga tarde y cierren el local, o que él no quiera salir y otra que quiten la electricidad.
Cualquier cosa de esas que pase, impide que se afeite.
Yo hago el pago y espero a ver qué pasará.
Es cerca de aquí, así que nos vamos caminando, y debe ser rápido, porque a las 5, ya el quiere cenar.
Por la mañana no lo llevo porque no ha almorzado, y no se que tiene el registrado en su memoria, que siempre se me ha hecho complicado, sacarlo si él no ha almorzado.
Puede ser la hora que sea, pero si no ha comido dos veces en el día, se altera mucho, así que espero que almuerce, luego que duerma lo que él quiera, y una vez se levantó, si podemos salir, pero breve porque vamos caminando.
Ese día ya eran las 4 de la tarde y nada que se paraba.
El barbero trabaja hasta las 5.
Estaba nublado, pero no llovió.
Asi que apenas se levantó, le escribí al barbero que en 15 minutos salíamos.
Como siempre iba protestando por el camino, pero pudimos llegar sin novedad.
Noto que últimamente está menos difícil salir con él, será porque las salidas son muy cerca y no se harta de la caminata.
Antes yo lo pensaba mucho, así fuera cerca, él está acostumbrado a andar en carro y eso de ir a pie, no es que le guste mucho.
La última vez que fuimos, me lo llevé casi corriendo por qué iba a llover.
Apenas entramos al centro comercial, empezó a lloviznar , y cuando salimos, estaba lloviendo fuerte, y aguantó la espera hasta que escampo.
Esta vez cuando llegamos estaba terminando con un cliente, y enseguida le tocó su turno.
Espero su turno tranquilo y también se dejó afeitar sin protestar.
Eso sí, nunca lo han podido afeitar sentado, y mucho menos ponerle la capa.
Creo que se queda tranquilo, porque hace tiempo que no hay más nadie trabajando allí, porque antes lo que lo molestaba, era el ruido de los secadores y también que habían varias personas y hablaban mucho.
El se tapa los oídos aunque no haya ruido.
Ya él tiene 30 años. Los primeros años, lo afeitaban creo que cada tres meses, porque eso era un sufrimiento para todos. Le molestaba todo y eran varios viajes hasta que por fin se afeitaba, y yo sentía que a él le crecía el cabello más rápido que a nadie.
Lo llevaba durante varios días hasta que por fin quedaba listo.
Cada vez que lo llevaba, le pasaba la máquina por un lado y así hasta que finalizara.
Este señor lo está afeitando desde que tenía 5 años.
Antes de eso, lo llevaba a varios sitios y no se podía.
El no entiende a qué va y eso lo altera.
Este barbero ya tiene varios años en este local, cuando se mudaba mi hijo no quería entrar. El barbero salía a la calle a buscarlo y le explicaba que era él mismo, y tampoco le gustaba que le cambiara el lugar dentro del local.
Al sitio donde lo afeitan no le pueden hacer modificaciones.
El se graba todo y no se le olvida, y parece que no quiere ninguna modificación, porque podemos irnos por dos lugares , pero tenemos que irnos y devolvernos por dónde mismo.
El comportamiento autista es complicado.
El hecho de que tiene 30 años, no significa que yo sepa todo, cada día es una cosa diferente y aunque él fuera verbal, creo que igual sería complicado, porque a veces dicen una cosa y tampoco es lo que dicen.
Ellos mismos no se entienden.
ENGLISH
Greetings to the community #motherhood.
My son getting a shave.
Since the morning I made the payment to the man who shaves him, but I am never sure if he is going to shave that day or not.
There are several variables that influence that: one is the rain, or that it gets late and they close the place, or that he doesn't want to go out, and another that the electricity is turned off.
Any of those things can prevent him from shaving.
I make the payment and wait to see what will happen.
It's close to here, so we walk, and it must be fast, because at 5 o'clock, he wants to have dinner.
In the morning I don't take him because he hasn't eaten lunch, and I don't know what he has registered in his memory, which has always made it complicated for me to take him out if he hasn't eaten lunch.
It can be whatever time it is, but if he has not eaten twice during the day, he gets very upset, so I hope he eats lunch, then he sleeps as much as he wants, and once he is up, if we can go out, but briefly because we are walking.
That day it was already 4 o'clock in the afternoon and nothing stopped.
The barber works until 5.
It was cloudy, but it didn't rain.
So as soon as he got up, I wrote to the barber that we would leave in 15 minutes.
As usual he was protesting on the way, but we arrived safely.
I notice that lately it is less difficult to go out with him, maybe because the outings are very close and he doesn't get tired of walking.
Before I used to think about it a lot, even if it was close, he is used to riding in a car and he doesn't like walking very much.
The last time we went, I took him almost running because it was going to rain.
As soon as we entered the mall, it started to drizzle, and when we came out, it was raining hard, and he waited until the rain stopped.
This time when we arrived he was finishing with a client, and it was his turn.
He waited his turn calmly and also let himself be shaved without protest.
Of course, they have never been able to shave him sitting down, let alone put the cape on him.
I think he stays calm, because no one has been working there for a long time, because before what bothered him was the noise of the hairdryers and also that there were several people and they talked a lot.
He covers his ears even if there is no noise.
He is now 30 years old. The first few years, he was shaved I think every three months, because that was a pain for everybody. Everything bothered him and it was several trips until he finally shaved, and I felt that he grew his hair faster than anyone else.
I would wear it for several days until it was finally ready.
Each time he would wear it, he would run the razor on one side and so on until it was done.
This gentleman has been shaving it since he was 5 years old.
Before that, he would take it to several places and it wouldn't go.
He doesn't understand what he is going to and it upsets him.
This barber has been in this place for several years, when my son was moving in he did not want to go in. The barber went out to the street to look for him and explained to him that it was him, and he didn't like me changing his place in the barber shop either.
The place where he is shaved cannot be modified.
My son records everything and doesn't forget it, and he doesn't seem to want any modifications, because we can go two places, but we have to leave and come back the same way.
Autistic behavior is complicated.
The fact that he is 30 years old does not mean that I know everything, every day is a different thing and even if he were verbal, I think it would still be complicated, because sometimes they say one thing and it is not what they say.
They don't understand themselves.