The Joys of Being a Solo Traveller - LOH #238

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There are times when I feel that I want to be alone; it's not because I'm sick of being with others. It's because I think that I need some alone time to recharge my energy. As an ambivert, I plan to be with everyone whenever I can, but I drain a lot of energy when I do that. To feel energetic again, I need some alone time. Otherwise, people might see the changes in me. It's not that much of a problem, but it's noticeable. Anyone can understand it by talking to me. I don't give off the energetic vibes anymore as I always do.

I do get depressed, and when I do, I don't like being around anyone. I get irritated by small actions, and it is a reflection of low energy. I do not do it intentionally; it just happens with the flow. The last time I went to play pool with my friends, everything was good at first, but somehow, as time passed, I felt dull, and it was because it had been a long time since I had gone anywhere alone.

I really like to travel alone instead of going with someone. I feel that traveling alone helps me realize more about myself, and I get to know myself better. However, as a girl, I can't travel at night, so I always have to travel during the daytime because my parents won't allow it, as they are very protective of me. I like to observe nature by myself. I always try to travel during the daytime and reach a safe place at night, and then go out again during the daytime. That's how I travel, and it makes my parents feel at peace.

I clicked this picture when I was on my Uber ride. This place is in Cox's Bazar. It was fun traveling by bike, and the driver was friendly. I don't usually travel by bike, but it was very low cost, so I wanted to give it a try. The picture got blurry because I'm not good at taking pictures, so yeah.

Ah well, when I travel with my family, it's also enjoyable, but there are some activities that I can't do with them around, and I always have to think about them, so I don't freely enjoy myself as there are some boundaries that I do not dare to cross. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy traveling with my family; it's just a different experience than when I travel alone. I can understand why my parents are so protective, and I do not blame them, but I can't feel the freedom when I travel with my family.

In my case, I actually love to travel alone, and it's a feeling that can't be described unless you're also a solo traveler; then you can understand why I'm saying this. Anyway, I feel everyone should try solo traveling once in a lifetime so they can feel peace of mind, and trust me, it's refreshing. I don't solo travel often because I've studies and lots of things to do. I can't abandon my responsibilities to travel. I make time for my self after 2-3 months gap and hopefully I can share some pictures in the future.

Thanks for reading 🌷

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I agree with you, traveling alone is a different experience, without a doubt, it helps you to get to know yourself better, as well as doing it during the day allows you to enjoy nature, it is also very important to know that your parents feel reassured for your safety, thank you for sharing your experiences,

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That's true as well, surely can't let down my parents.

Thank you 🌷

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It's a good choice to take some time alone, especially if it recharges you with new energy. Activities like biking or visiting pleasant places by the sea are a natural experience that clears the mind and restores peace and confidence. That place you visited, "Cox's Bazar," is charming, full of color and apparent tranquility. Always remember, when you feel alone and tend to get upset, take a deep breath, remember your mission in life, and simply go out and conquer the world. You'll surely catch your breath and feel better. Something like starting over and not letting adversity affect you. Greetings @zoe01, it was a pleasure reading your post.

Es buena elección tomarse un tiempo a solas, sobre todo si eso te recarga de nueva energía. Las actividades como andar en bici o visitar sitios agradables a orillas del mar son todo una experiencia natural que despaja la mente y nos devuelve la paz y la confianza. Ese sitio que has visitado "Cox's Bazar" es encantador, está lleno de mucho colorido y tranquilidad aparente. Recuerda siempre que te sientas sola y tiendas a afligirte, respira profundo, acuerdate de tu mision en la vida y simplemente sal a conquistar el mundo. De seguro tomarás el aliento necesario y te sentiras mejor. Algo así, como empezar de nuevo y no dejarse afectar por las adversidades. Saludos @zoe01 fue un gusto leer tu post.

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Thanks for spending your valuable time reading my post, I am happy that you have understood what I wanted to express. 🌷

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That need to recharge and reconnect with yourself is something many of us can relate to. I'm on it 😊
!LADY

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Glad to know everyone agrees with me, I thought I won't find anyone hehe.

Thanks 🌷

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