Family Values
A household without a father
Is one with great disorder?
The family unit is so important
Without it people can get discordant
We don’t see the gravity of its value
Because we grew up valued
But check the lives of the destitute children
From a dysfunctional home came majority of them
Let us remember that a poor man has no business
Raising children, Less they grow in constant sickness
Poor refers not only to the financial,
But the character, psychological, emotional and social
A child found lacking in these core values
Might soon become a menace to the society.
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I don't think all children who grow up without a father will become uncertain. I am a single mother, and my children didn't grow up with their father. My eldest is now working as an art instructor. My son, on the other hand, has been an exemplary student several times.
I also have some friends who didn't grow up with their fathers, but they still live well. On the other hand, I know many people who live uncertain lives because they have been spoiled by their wealthy families, even though they still have both parents living together.
It's important to remember that not having a father present doesn't automatically determine a person's stability. Every person has different experiences and circumstances. While having a father in the family can provide additional stability, it's not the only factor that influences someone's life. There are many other factors that can impact a person's development and success, including support from the mother, family, and the surrounding environment.
First of all, I want to acknowledge and appreciate your efforts in raising stellar children. Your kids sounds like amazing people. Raising children as a single mom must not have been the easiest job, and you pulled through and are still showing up so, well done!
I want to tender my deepest apologies, if my poem came off as insensitive to certain people. It is never my intention to disregard or discriminate any group of people.
I was merely aiming to highlight the importance of having a father figure present in the home, and how necessary it is. But now that you pointed it out, I can see how this may have passed off the wrong message.
Moving forward I will choose my words better and probably seek a second opinion as well because publishing.
Thank you for bringing this to my knowledge. I sincerely appreciate.
My warm regards to your family!
Thank you so much for your kind words and understanding. I truly appreciate your acknowledgment of the challenges I've faced as a single mom and your recognition of my children's amazing qualities. It means a lot to me.
I also want to thank you for being open to feedback and for acknowledging the unintentional insensitivity in your piece. It takes a lot of humility and self-reflection to recognize and address such matters.
I understand that you didn't mean to criticize, and it's possible that I am just sensitive when it comes to children, especially considering the absence of a responsible father figure. This topic becomes even more sensitive for me to discuss.
Moving forward, I have no doubt that your words will continue to inspire and uplift others, while being mindful of the diverse perspectives and experiences of different people and families.
Thank you once again for being understanding, and I apologize if my comments seemed too direct. Warm regards to you and your family as well!
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Truly, not all become wayward but majority do
Kids without father might look strong but the hole in the heart is always there yarning to be filled
That is very true.
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I love the last part of meaning of being poor.
Nice write.
Thank you dear
You are welcome
Being a father goes beyond fathering a child, it is part of a whole and a constant sacrifice of love.
Excellent reflective verses.
Thanks for sharing.
Good day.
Heavy on the sacrifice as well. A father's love is incomparable to any other.
Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate the audience🤗