Finance in marriage
When we hear marriage elot comes to our minds like two people becoming one or a man leaving his parents and starting his own family legally so many definitions. Marriage is one topic that never ends or has many branches but today il be talking about money in marriage .
Majority believes that the man is the sore provider of the family and his home but the world as of today has made it a joint situation we’re both the husband and wife have to earn to provide.
In many homes nomata the amount floating in the account some husbands will tell their wife to work and some will tell them not to but most wife’s being career driven or business driven they still want to work or earn either for the fun or the company it gives to them rather than just being home doing nothing especially when the children involved are in school.
It is easy for a woman to ignore working when she’s nursing but depending on how she feels about her career and business so they just have no options than to be patient for at least 3 months after childbirth.
Furthermore the notion that woman can provide for the home doesn’t mean all the responsibilities becomes hers because as much as she’s strong to bear children cook, clean do the laundry and still work in an office does not mean that she isn’t weak. She is a support and should never be taken advantage of.
Most women basically loose control of their finances when married because they now become too free and they give up their own decisions just to keep their home or be the best they can be in support at the long run they end up regretting because they have deprived themselves of their happiness and for most it turns out great for most it turns out bad in a sense that most men will change and give them the world while others loose it all. So there must be a balance.