Emotional babies in adults body

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Stop Choosing Emotional Babies in a human Body. Age is different from maturity
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One of the most exhausting things a person can do to his or herself is be in a relationship, or worse, a marriage with a partner who is emotionally immature.
What am I even saying? Marriage ke? How did you manage to pass the relationship stage with such let alone entering into marriage with it? I am not even here to sound deep or philosophical. I'm just saying, do not play mother, father, therapist, and partner all at once. Please don’t
An emotionally immature partner will make you question your sanity. Trust me on that, he or she will. You will explain and explain, cry and cry, beg and beg and still end up apologizing for things that was done to hurt you.

An adult who is emotionally immature does not listen, does not know how to take correction, throws tantrums when you express your feelings, gets you lost in the conversation by his or her reaction or attitude and then disappears when it’s time to have real conversations.
The truth is, you will be the one dragging the relationship on your back, carrying all the emotional weight, and begging your supposed love of life to grow up when that should have been done before you both met. You will become tired. Grow sick both physically, mentally and emotionally. Then feel alone even though you have a partner or already in a relationship. Learn to understand that it is not love if it is draining you and if it always makes you feel like a burden.
Emotional immaturity in an adult human shows up as pride, manipulation, blame shifting, the silent treatment, guilt-tripping, and sometimes just plain childishness.
In addition, let me say this loud enough for the people at the back. You are not a rehabilitation center for men who refuse to grow up. Love is sweet, but not when it is draining you. You deserve a spouse who is emotionally stable, who knows how to communicate, who takes responsibility not just for his or her life but also for his or her actions, and who chooses to grow because maturity is a choice.
Let him or her become before you begin. Please, read that again.

This is not you not asking for too much. It is just unfortunate that you are asking the wrong partner
If you are currently in such a situation my dear, you can recommend books for your partner to read, podcast and other materials that can be helpful. Just to help him or her grow emotionally and know how to genuinely love without hurting you because he or she is trying to protect his ego. Well, that is if you truly want it to work. However, if you think you cannot take it anymore, please make the right decision early enough.