DOUBLE DATING!! AND ITS INFLUENCE!
Good Day everyone welcome to another week of the weekly prompt, first(1st) week of the month.
"The influence of double dating might cause you pleasure or pain". Based on who you have an affair with. We all deserve to be treated right in all circumstances.
I wouldn't just conclude that double dating is bad/good.
We all have reasons for our actions, our societies today's turn it into a game. A game that everyone wants to favour he/she. If you fall victim it causes you pain but if it favoured you it causes you pleasure. Should I say you're lucky or unlucky? Perhaps.
It's actually good to have a partner, someone you love and cherish. One who brings out the best in you.
Makes you smile even when you're sad. Adores you and wants to show you off to the world. Makes you want to be a better person. Spends time with you even when they are busy. And most of all, one who loves you inside and out!
If I can't confide in you, is because of trust. The word “trust” is expensive to a point. It got my friend to count the money he withdrew from the “ATM” . I guess he has trust issues but when I asked he responded, isn't it obvious for an imperfect man to create something that's perfect, i glance and smile. He might have a point. No doubt we all do when it comes to relationships.
"All of this is because of the errand we found ourselves in. The impactful influence of social media must've corrupted our minds".
Someone will double date if he/she feels the other person is doing the same, there's no trust.
Perhaps I'm not satisfied with one, we always want more, nothing seems to be enough.
We are "selfish centeredness", I can only care about my happiness! I felt as long as it makes me happy I'm cold with that.
Everyone has their other side, but you never can tell until you walk into that person's life.
I can be rude, arrogant but it doesn't definds me differently.
DOUBLE DATING!! GOOD OR BAD?
Love is care, attention and loyalty. The intense feeling of one to another.
Being faithful to partners in relationships paves the extension of relationships longer than you thought. Double dating isn't meant to hurt anyone. Is all about understanding, we can be cold with that. If we do understand ourselves.
"Provident must've brought you together, I'm sure you wouldn't like to ruin it".
You might happen to be a cheating partner and be fine with it. But it doesn't make you a faithful partner.
"What if the both partners happened to be deceitful?
I will be glad to hear your thoughts…!
Well I think, I might encourage double dating, double dating is not always what we think it is!. What makes us happy is what matters after all!
Double dating is cold, what if the two person's I'm dating are okay with it!.
Imagine being a prince or princess. In search of true love you have to engage in double dating unaware, "but searching for true love that was never missing".
Sometimes just because it is a tradition or religion doesn't makes it right. Reality is!.
The person you love might end up loving someone else.
It doesn't classified he/she a cheating partner or better still how we might see or call it. Perhaps love fades away.
We have choices, and our heart desires who we want to be with.
Double dating might be good or bad, based on the past experience you had. You might have felt cheated but it taught you a lesson.
I guess immaturity might inconvenience our sense of reasoning.
Immaturity is when you're stupid, while maturity is when you're stupid and you know it!
Actually relationships demand one to play the role of fool while the other being smart. In order to let it work.
Two smart people can't be in a relationship. But why?.....!
You're clever, I'm smarter than you thought.
No, nobody will like to be submissive.
They both felt clever and were like, I can't be deceptive.
""A wise man said if I bend down to greet you, it is not that I'm having back pain. But it is because of humility".
Double dating is not always bad, cheating is.
Might sound weird but don't get it wrong. Is all about understanding.
Wow this post got me thinking. I didn't want quickly jump into conclusions but im thinking whether to accept it's good or bad.
I'm glad you picked point on it!
Be it good or bad.
Thanks for stopping by!!@ayakaliman
Wow! I don't think I can agree with double dating being anything good. Especially you consider the hurt it can cause the other person. It's mostly borne out of selfishness and unsatisfaction. To think of the long lasting consequences too. I think there's more to it when we sit down and think about it.
Your opinion though...
You might be probably right.
We all are against it as if we don't do it!😂
I tried to come up with something different to back it up!
If Its were debate I'm opposing!😎
Thanks for reading through! @daverick!
You are opposing right 😄
And I don't think it's okay to stereotype it that everyone does. There are true and genuine people. It's about values and a strong will decision.
You tried to come up with something though... thanks for sharing.
Speaking on your behalf I guess!😎
Most people doing it are more than the few left!
Off-course there are genuine people!
But when it comes to relationships I doubt, don't get me wrong! @daverick
Don't forget I'm opposing!😂
Lol
Not only for myself bro. It's wrong to base an entire premise on a number of people that do it. Even if the many do it, it doesn't negate the fact that there are few that don't. And when you have such stereotype, it's what makes one to decide to inadvertently double date, cos you believe all do it. And of course, I know genuine people in this.
I still remember, and thank you for opposing 😅
Not all parsec!
I guess I don't need to remind you of! One bean spoils the rest!😎
We have genuine people indeed. But the last time I checked, all humans are imperfect!🫠
I still stand on my opinion, double dating isn't wrong! Double dating isn't marriage! You will have feelings for several persons but to settle down in the women aspects You're entitled to one man constitution or religion I guess! While men aspects!
Religion; if you're capable of taking care of them, you can marrie more than one!
Let's be realistic! People double dating b4 settling down!
You're welcome!!@daverick
This dude 😅
Yeah, all humans are imperfect but then is it a yardstick to keep doing wrong? No sir. I guess you know that. One bean cannot really spoil the rest, except the rest decide to follow suit. My point is don't use the fact that people do something and make a generalisation. It's not right sir. I stand by it again that there are genuine people, and I'm not pointing myself here cos I've seen genuine ones truly. And you make it seem okay to double date till marriage, you know how many suffer marital unfaithfulness because of the character of double dating they developed? The misconception is that, when you marry it is now settled. Sorry, it's a fallacy, it's just a continuation of what one was already doing.
I stand by it still bro, that double dating is wrong and we can find no true valid reason to it if we're being honest. A question, how would you feel to be at the end point of a double dating partner, where you're the side guy? Maybe when we reason like this, we'll see things in their true light.
Thank you for the opportunity to argue with you, I appreciate bro 😅
We believed on the things we were told!
What if the right is wrong! And the wrong is right?
You stand by it that there are genuine people! Probably holy! or Saint perhaps. U and I know there's none on earth!
It might sound weird to u!
There's no right nor wrong!.
people suffer in marriage this days due to lack of planning and understanding!
how would i feel to be at the end point of a double dating partner, where I'm the side guy?
While!
I'm used to it that no girl has one guy she's dating. And I admit it!
It's 9ice debating with you! @daverick😊
It's not about the things we were told, it's about the things we came to know. Sorry, there's right and wrong, and that's why there's the law to catch up with you when you do wrong. Try going to steal and be caught, then I guess when you see a tyre wrapped around you, you'll agree there's a right and wrong. Nobody is a saint, yes! But people are trying their best to be genuine so don't make it look like all their efforts are wasted. You probably haven't seen any, but I have so I can't agree with such assessment you make. It's probably and highly from a stereotype you had, what you might have been told as well. And, planning and understanding isn't the only reason people suffer in marriages. Meet people and listen to their testimonies you'll know better.
Sorry to say, but much of your assessments if you'll agree in all honesty are based on sentiments and stereotype. And, I can really see why. Cos by the statement that you admit that no girl has one guy, I can understand better. But again, it's a bias analysis from you for whatsoever reason. Please don't generalise and disapprove people who are being real bro. For what it may, continuing with such a mindset will only pollute you in marriage tomorrow.
And I don't think you really answered my question,"how will you feel to be at the end point of a double dating partner?" You just made a statement. But you can assess it in all honesty. Drop your bias!
Thank you once again 😁
Damn! wassup with this dude!🤔
There's no right nor wrong!(logic)
What told you, you were right or wrong?
Who told you blue is a blue colour? If blue were named red, we will still believe it's red!
Talking about constitution or law!
Just because it's a law doesn't make it right!
Nature gave it to us for free, but we turned it the other way round!(things of the world)
The law were made to govern only the commoner, like u and i
Talking about genuine people! "IDk"
Who u came across with, that makes u confide in him or her!
Life it's seems like a movie, a filmstrip. I wish the scene could be shown like a movie!
You're right based on your perspective I guess. And I'm not wrong, based on my perspective perhaps!
We view life in different ways based on experience!
Talking about suffering in marriage. Marriage were never made to be enjoyed but to endure "not even sx"
I didn't generalised it, but people who claimed to be good happens to be the bad ones! People can false act for their selfish interests. Sometimes times I wish I could read minds!🤦♂️
how will i feel to be at the end point of a double dating partner?
The person I might be dating is not a "Saint" either am I.
We gat rights and choice.
If I want love, I first go the pain!
If I'm going into a relationship, I knew what I'm going into!
I never expect trust in it! After all we are all imperfect!
Instead I expect mistakes from it which can be corrected! No one is above mistakes. One thing I believed.
I accept everything that comes wrongly as a mistakes and moved on! And I don't criticize.
I hope u don't get me sha! @daverick😊*
Bro, sorry oo there's right and wrong. There's no any deception as logic there. So you mean is a sense, when I pick your stuff with the sole aim of stealing it, I can be termed right? Or we gang up and beat an innocent person we can be termed right in a way? I guess the killings and kidnappings can be said to be right too. Sorry, but we have to be honest. I've understood that when people don't want to take responsibility to do the right things we find excuses as "logic" to back them up. The funny thing is that deep down we know it doesn't add up.
Yes, I've met genuine people and I can confidently say it anywhere to even defend them. That a person is genuine doesn't mean he or she won't have flaws, that's where you're misunderstanding. You expect someone to be just so perfect? Come on, please!
Marriage is never meant to be enjoyed but endured? It's not true sir. I guess you've heard people say that a lot and somehow it became a part of your ideology. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and endured sir. Why go into something you'll only endure all your life? It's a fallacy bro.
And life is not like a movie, there are no tricks here. What you do determines what you get. Life is life. Some perspectives are not okay. I'm not making my perspectives about everything seem all right or okay. In case you find it so. But where I've observed and found truth, I recognise it.
Well, you made generalisations. You can go back and read some of your previous comments you'll see.
Sorry for dragging this for long. This is your post and you have the right to your opinion. I hope you do get me too sha 🙂
Wow! This dude never seems to give up!
If i do generalised it, i accept it as mistake! Because I'm not above it or perfect!
You just stand firm!😎
Lemme reserve my opinion till some other time!🙌
It's really 9ice meeting you @daverick!
Yeah, till some other time. I actually dropped my pen already 😄
Sorry if I got you wrong, we .ake mistakes, true.
Nice having this conversation 😎
😂😂
Wrong me ke!
Not at all.
No offence!
Thanks for stopping by! @daverick
I don't completely disagree with you cheating is the main problem. But do you think you can ever be in a relationship when you know you are sharing your partner with someone else. How do you even take that em seriously when they don't even know what they want. No matter how you look at double dating is a fools game sugarcoating it with if we understand ourselves we are good to go but I when you really start to feel genuine love for your partner you will not want to share
Your might be probably right! @coderaikiri
I didn't back it up! But I stand on the opinion of either good or bad!
Double dating could cause you pain or pleasure depends on your past experience!
Most people engaged in double dating due to untrustworthy. When it comes to love will all have doubts! Is only when you read minds!
But even if you do, you only pretend to be faithful.
In summary when it comes to relationships there's no trust!
Thanks for reading through, I'm glad you stopped by!
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I also have a contrary opinion to this @xeeon
But let me reserve my opinion for later:)
Ah boss!
I will love to hear your opinion!😊
I'm glad you stopped by! @ovey10