When I made my first million

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When I made my first million

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I had to make a difficult choice after earning my first millions in Naira. The funds were intended for my wedding, but I couldn't help but feel anxious about dedicating such a sizable quantity of money to just one occasion. I was also considering buying land, which just increased my uneasiness. But looking back, I'm glad I went through with the wedding because it was not easy.

I was worried that by spending so much money on the wedding, I wouldn't be able to accomplish my other objectives, like buying land, at the moment. Deciding was difficult because both possibilities offered advantages. The celebration of a wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime event, but purchasing land could offer long-term financial security.

In the end, I chose to put my wedding first. I would rather not cut corners because it was a significant occasion. I wanted to make priceless memories that would endure forever. So, using the money I had saved, I proceeded with the wedding preparations while also feeling apprehensive and excited.

My worries that I wouldn't succeed in fulfilling my other objectives persisted as the wedding day drew near. What if I came to regret not purchasing land? What if a fantastic chance passed me by? But I believed in my instincts and that everything would turn out for the best.

Looking back, I see that I made the proper choice in giving my wedding priority. I will never forget the love and happiness I felt on that day. We made great memories together, and it drew my family and friends closer. It was an occasion to celebrate love and fidelity, and it signaled the start of a brand-new chapter in my life.

In addition, I came to understand that my worries about not accomplishing my other objectives were unwarranted as time went on. There were still chances for me to buy land and ensure my financial future. I discovered that because life frequently takes unexpected turns, it's crucial to enjoy the moment as it arises, and I now understand that life has its best for you when you are determined and hardworking.

Ultimately, I'm glad I had the confidence to go with my wedding despite my anxieties. It helped me learn to believe in my abilities and that things will turn out for the best. Risk-taking and following your heart might occasionally result in even greater successes than you had originally anticipated. I'm grateful that I followed my instincts and enjoyed every moment of my wedding.

I learned a valuable lesson from this event about taking chances, having faith in the process, and believing that everything would work out. It confirmed my conviction that, occasionally, our greatest successes might result from the very things we fear the most.
I praise my Creator for providing the means to accomplish what I was afraid to do. You know, as someone who just made his first millions, you know what you've passed through, and you would be the thinking of so many things before spending the morning because sometimes opportunity come but once, it was a big risk for me.

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Worry only serves to make one more anxious and never yields positive results but there's always light at the end of the tunnel.

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You just pinched me ... wedding preparations can be disturbing when one doesn't consider that wedding is for some hours while marriage is forever.

I almost had similar experience when preparing for my wedding but thank God a good friend gave me counsel and I curtail expenses so that I would something to start up life with my beautiful wife.

Thanks for sharing bro

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You already said it all , I am really happy you took the right decision

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Two good head is better than one. Your wife may become your Chief adviser in setting the pace for acquiring assets. Best of luck bro.

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Yes that is true , thank you for stopping by

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It's not easy going with the decision you took. Most men will try to cut corners, me for one would probably do that if that is the only money I have. Happy your choice made you happy, I believe that is the ultimate satisfaction.

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I am just very lucky , than you for stopping by

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That is a really hard decision to make, but glad you choose the best option for you and you were also able to accomplish the other goal later

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Excellent sir,

having faith in every chance and believing that things would work out

Theses are critical things we must never forget bro
You made the right choice and now you're enjoying the benefits
Kudos friend

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Congrats! I must admit I've had the same anxiety with my own, now I am engaged.

Thankfully, my girl isn't even into the traditional wedding thing so much. I'm still open to it but I'd gladly avoid it - I'm just not that photogenic!

That being said, the precious memories have to come from somewhere. A wedding might be a big one we regret. So many things to consider...

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Yeah that. Is true , thank you for stopping by

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Awwww! You people should sha be oppressing us anyhow. So I know you guys story now, niceee! Obviously, you choose the write option.

Thanks for sharing.

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Thank you for stopping by

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