Not a going out type

Not a going out type

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I'm not the kind of person that likes to go out much. My social circle is not particularly close, and I don't have many close pals. I just do not enjoy being very social or spending time in large gatherings.

My wife and children are the only individuals with whom I truly feel close. I can be who I really am around them and feel comfortable being myself. All others, I simply maintain a slight space.

However, I always strive to take advantage of the opportunities I get to go out and socialize. I want to make sure I have a wonderful time and make some great moments even though this is not what I usually do.

Similar to last month, I received an invitation to attend a baseball game from a few of my coworkers. Although I would not ordinarily accept it, I made the decision to give it a shot. I am quite happy I did.

From the minute we got to the stadium, I was determined to have a great time. I bought us all hot dogs and beers, and we found some seats right behind home plate. The weather was perfect, and the game was really close and exciting.

I noticed that I was getting into it, high-fiving and cheering my teammates whenever something good happened for our team, and I joined in right away, even though I knew some of the songs and shouts the supporters were performing. For those few hours, I felt like a true member of the group.

At one point, our team hit a game-winning home run in the bottom of the ninth inning. The place just erupted in celebration, and I found myself jumping up and down with the rest of the crowd, pumping my fist in the air. I don't think I have ever felt that kind of pure, spontaneous excitement at a sporting event before.

When the game was over, we all grabbed one more beer and talked about our favorite moments. I shared my thoughts and jokes, and the others seemed to appreciate my participation. I could tell they were surprised to see me so engaged and animated, since I am usually pretty quiet at work.

As we said our goodbyes in the parking lot, I felt a sense of camaraderie that I hadn't experienced in a long time. Sure, these people are not my closest friends, but for that one night, we bonded over our shared love of the game and our team. It was a really fun, memorable experience to me.

My ability to have a good time when the chance presents itself, despite my lack of social skills, seems to be the key. When those opportunities arise, I take advantage of them even if I do not actively seek them out. I fully commit to the activity, interact with those around me, and savor the present.

It is imperative to occasionally venture beyond your comfort zone, even if it is not an innate trait. You never know when you might end up making a lasting impression or making a new friend. And since I'm a private person myself, such infrequent social gatherings hold extra significance for me most of the time.

Therefore, even though I am not the kind to go out and socialize and make new friends all the time, I still know how to have a great time when the opportunity arises. Making the most of each and every moment, no matter how big or tiny, is what matters most.

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