The best moment of life.

Hello everyone, how are doing, my name is Valblesza,
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Share what makes you happy, food? Movies?Family? Travel?

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It is another moment where we can share what makes us happy, and I'm glad to be here with you to share with us that which makes me happy in life.

I know everything that satisfies humans makes one happy, including food, family, and a good traveling experience. And at the same time, I cannot overemphasize the importance of the happiness that comes with staying with my family.

Because food is your need, traveling experience is also a need, but family togetherness bond is significant and vital to me.

There is nothing that radiates my inner joy and satisfaction, like staying with my family.

Our love for each other is not to be compared to materialistic things, I rather stay with my family in hunger, without food, or having big extravagant life experiences.

Because I know the pain of lack and want of materialistic things won't last forever.

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And even if it were to be there, I would never have placed it as a priority, reasons being that, staying with my family strengthens me a lot, it gives me hope for a greater tomorrow.

When we share that feelings, how tough it has been, even if it is not on an expensive denying table, it makes me realize that the only thing I have on earth is my family.

The only thing that would remain forever unchanged is the happiness I get staying together with my family and loved ones.

I have seen some people who have chosen food and wide life experiences over their family, I feel detested, about it honestly because in that decision there is no happiness, in family abstinence.

Allow me to share my life story with us. When I was a child, things were not pretty fine with my parents, a home of five kinds, three handsome and two beautiful girls.

I was asked to come stay over to continue my education by my Aunty in her house, a very comfortable home, even though she has been helping a helping hand to the family before then.

So I thought about it, and I to my mum, this is not the best option for me, going to stay in Aunty's house. But a handicap woman, she insisted I should go.

Aunty is rich and things our rough for us here. My mum said.

But we can make it again. I told her.

Although mum agreed, faintly.

Still insisted I should go.

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So I asked her what about my little younger sister? And my other siblings, are they coming to stay over there with me?

She muttered no!

I know my dad was already going through a lot already, my grown up brothers on their own our all working hard to roundup with their studies with self sponsored efforts at that moment.

Leaving Me and my younger sister, who were like the unfortunate birds in the cage.

So I decided to give it a try. Honestly Aunty Flora was a kind woman, she was very nice to me, even her husband was kind too, the family accepted me, even though I was half blood of the family. Aunty Flora is my mum's younger sister.

The closeness was there, but each time they call for denying, I will always be the last to turn out on the table. Not because, I wasn't treated well, even weekend outings, were a regular thing over there, similar to how it used to be in my home when things were stable.

But I will always snick out of the compound, running back every day to check up on my siblings, my mum, my dad. I know the food wasn't there, I know life and good traveling experiences were the last on the list in the home I'm running back to.

Yet, I have to visit my family every day because Aunty's home isn't that far from my home.

So each time I'm being served food, the first thing that comes into my mind is had my siblings eaten today? How about my parents?

It became too unbearable and, the emotion of that togetherness; becomes more irresistible, that family bond, still has a greater part in me.

So one day I packed up my stuff, went back to my parents' house. The only thing I had in mind then was that if the ugly situation would kill us all, then let it be so.

My mum, wasn't thrilled with my decision, neither was she even any happy losing my presence to a sister's home.

So when I got home that weekend, the Monday of it, I had to return to the public school, where I attended before leaving for a private school. I was intentional about my decision.

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After few days, Aunty Floral came with her entire family and my naive and cousins to take me back.

But I refused. I can't be in a well Air conditioned home, while my siblings are suffering, let us all drawn into it together, if fate holds it so for us.

Why did I bring this story, is to share my experiences because, emotions is creating a content that keens your experience so that people will learn?

I haven't seen, what satisfaction, I will get leaving my family behind, for any reason. What am I leaving for then? No matter how hard and how difficult the situation seems.

I will always choose staying and dying with my family, take away everything, but let me stay with my family, let me celebrate that happiness with.

I know my our the only ones that would stand for me and not those who maybe seems they are the lifesaver now.

Not dedication flashy things to you now, with the best traveling experience.

If you really grape an in-depth understanding of the kind of happiness that is associated with family love, I don't think anyone would want to stay away from theirs.

Sweeter than food, traveling movies.

The happiness I get staying with my family is like, oxygen, the peace of mind is evidence of a good leaving even though all we can share is a cup of water, I don't mind.

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This is just the best way to lief a life of happiness, my staying with them teaches me contentment, how to build a good Interpersonal relationship with other people.

I can't prefer movies either to my family, what is more of movie than my family.

Our jokes, can be script, the smiles, the emotional and long day experience shared is more than the life stories of other individuals.

So I prefer staying with my family than, food, movies, Traveling.

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