WHEN YOU SEE ME

When you see me dressed up, with make-up, freshly cleaned nails, eating delicious food or going to some place, don't judge me as a careless mother. Because you didn't see the things I sacrificed. I gave my whole life for my child. You didn't see how I bathe, patiently feed, put to sleep, and take care of my child. You didn't see the fatigue, hardship and every tear that fell from my eyes during the times I was alone. You have not seen all the things I have done and am doing. Because you only see what your eyes catch. So when you see me smiling and happy or doing anything for myself, just close your eyes because I'm happy that somehow I can do those things for myself even if it's just for a moment before taking a shower, feeding, sleep and babysit. Because when you see me neglecting myself, I know you will judge me too. I just became a MOTHER but I'm still a WOMAN...