Before and after

So before and after in life is like a norm right? Because there's a saying (change is a constant thing in life). So one minute you're young and being pampered, the next minute you're old and saddle with a whole lot of responsibilities, one minute you're pregnant the next minute you're in the hospital pushing out that beautiful baby, one minute you're carrying your baby the next minute your baby is moving about on their own ... So we'll all agree that every change that occurs in life takes a great deal of hard work, that has been put into it, for it to be a reality. Just like growing up,

We will all agree childhood was easier, your parents had everything covered for you, they'll never involve you even if they had any challenge, you eat when you like, sleep when you like and so on, but becoming an adult is the reverse of the case ... You think about everything, you'll have to work to put food on the table, cloth yourself, pay your bills and even have to contribute to your family's welfare.

At some point it gets overwhelming especially if you're in a country that has no standards.

Secondly being married and being single: so while single you'd talk to your baby on the phone, hook up from time to time with him or her, it would always feel easier until you're married (I'm not saying marriage is bad ).

You get married and boom you're saddle with more responsibilities, for women you need to bear children, take care of the home and most of the time you work .

So when I got married to the love of my life ... It was more like dating, only bigger because we'll have to stay together forever and every other rule. When everything changed when I got pregnant, I didn't know what to do ... I never knew the first thing about being a mother.

I went through a hard school of matching being a mother and a wife, and the results of being a good mother is how well your children turn out to be.

I did intensive research about children, so from my pregnancy, I started working on myself and my mind. took all my prenatal drugs made sure I ate healthy and followed up some tips to having a healthy pregnancy, then when I delivered my baby at that point I worked harder ... Made sure her weight was balanced every new month, made sure she was immunised and made sure she ate right etc. And today I'm proud of the outcome.

At a time it dawned on me that I needed to get used to these changes in life , and ever since then.

And now I am stronger and wiser due to my experiences I've moved From being a girl to a strong woman, being able to overcome the hurdles that might come with change matters a lot, your Victory determines the outcome of your future.

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