THE TRUE MEASURE OF MANHOOD .

Men, I need you people to genuinely love your women and treat them right. I'm not talking about money because I know when you hear "treat a woman right," it is always about money.

I'm talking sincere kindness. Being a safe place. Being the reason she looks forward to coming home. Giving her wings to fly. Love that does not silence her for fear of violence. You can be firm without being unreasonable. Masculinity is not a pretext for evil and not an opportunity to exert power abusively over the family you head. Relationship and marriage, is a covenant. A covenant to love and to cherish.

Thankful for healthy relationships and marriages out there. For the toxic ones, the circle of abuse has to end with us and by us I mean we in this current generation.

Having said this, it would be cliched to state that, if you're with a woman that is not equally invested in this covenant to love and to cherish you, to respect you as the head of the relationship and respect the relationship you share, please walk away and don't look back.

True strength lies in vulnerability, in humility, and in recognizing that love is a partnership. It is an ongoing commitment, not a one-sided sacrifice. It’s about mutual growth, understanding, and lifting each other up, not tearing each other down. Respect isn’t just a word; it’s the foundation of trust, and trust is the cornerstone of any lasting relationship.

Remember, the way you treat your woman reflects your character. It shows who you are at your core. So choose kindness, patience, and compassion daily. These aren’t signs of weakness, they are signs of true masculinity.

Let’s raise the bar. Let’s be the men who not only say they love but show it through actions. I mean actions rooted in respect, integrity, and genuine care. The world needs more of that. Your women deserve it. Your families thrive on it. And when love is built on these principles, it can withstand anything.