Sex, Responsibility, And The Truth Nobody Likes To Hear.

Hello Everyone and welcome to my Blog, Let's shake the table a bit today because honestly, whenever this abortion topic comes up, e dey always choke because people have very different opinions about it, and some of them are so extreme that you will just sit down and be wondering if you are all talking about the same thing, But for me personally, my thoughts on abortion stuff are very straightforward, I have always believed that unwanted pregnancy should not even be a phrase in any way, Like how?From where to Where? See how can something that comes from a deliberate action suddenly become unwanted? Like seriously....Sex is reproduction, Nobody should pretend like they don’t know the end product, We are not kids, If you are ready to open your legs or unzip trousers, both of you should know that pregnancy is part of the enjoyment package too.

I strongly believe that if you are not ready for a child, then you should either stay celibate or use proper, effective protection, and not this casual, careless behavior that people now try to clean up with the word abortion. So this is it two people made a choice to have sex, so the result should not suddenly shock anybody, the pregnancy didn’t fall from the sky, It didn’t magically appear , It is the outcome of an act that both of you willingly participated in, So when people start talking about how they didn’t plan it,Omo me I just shake my head, like TF... The only unplanned pregnancy is the one caused by rape or something outside your control, shey you get? Every other one? Let me tell you this, you definitely planned it indirectly through your actions.

And yes o, I am very strongly against abortion, Like, my spirit no align with am at all, and see once there is a child inside there, it is not a mistake, It is a life forming, and now ending that life because the timing is not convenient for you is something I really can’t support, I know life is hard, money is tough, and circumstances are not always ideal, i understand that part very well, but that is exactly why people should take measures before the pregnancy happens and not after, you know that prevention has always been better than cure, there are condoms, pills, injections, even abstinence if you want to go the safe route , but don’t engage in adult behavior and then try to erase the consequences when they show up.

After seeing this prompt today, I actually took my time to ask questions on my WhatsApp status because I wanted to hear different people’s opinions, even though I already know where I stand, and Surprisingly, I got a lot of comments different angles, different experiences, different reasoning and while some people were pro-choice, some were neutral, some were strongly against abortion like me, but almost everyone agreed that humans are now too careless with sex, and that’s part of why this whole abortion discussion is even too loud like this People want the pleasure but not the responsibility and that's bad.

Another angle some persons raised was about the father having a say, and honestly, this part is tricky, but let me just say it the way it is in my mind, okay so I believe fathers should have a say, because the child is also theirs, like It didn’t take only the woman to make that baby, the man also contributed too, So for me, it feels unfair when people say men should not have any opinion just because they won’t carry the pregnancy, yes, the risk and process are on the woman physically, but emotionally and financially, both of them will face the reality of raising that child.

But here is where I stand, so even though I believe the man should have a say, the final decision is still with the woman because it is her body and she is the one who will pass through the physical process, however, that does not mean her partner’s feelings or opinions should be ignored like they don’t even matter, no.... Both of them created the situation, so both should talk about it together and honestly but in the end, for me personally, all these conversations would not even be necessary if people were more responsible before sex.

The truth is that this is one topic the world might never agree on, Some people feel like abortion is a necessary option, Some feel like it is a right and some feel like it is absolutely wrong, and I fall into the last category strongly, i believe life is life, even when it is still forming, And I believe no child is a mistake in any way, yes they can come at a tough time, yes, they can come in a moment when life is upside down, yes, But that doesn’t make the child a mistake, It only means the adults involved were not prepared.

In the end, my stand is simple, if you are not ready for the responsibility, then don’t take the action that leads to pregnancy, Sex is not a small thing it is not a child's play, It is an act of reproduction first before it became a pleasure activity, People should remember that part always, Because once a child is forming, for me, that is a life, and no matter the excuses, ending that life is something I can’t support at all in any way.

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